Nice round Aelf.
I would like to propose forgetting about philosophy and angkor wat. Drama and medit don't do much for us besides opening up philosophy and I'd rather see our beakers go someplace else at this point. Plus I'm not a huge fan of Angkor Wat, but that's just me.
I would recommend settling the orange site and trading for calendar asap.
Re: War with Peter...What is our stance on this given the goals of the game? How many cities would we need to win a space race victory do you think?
With Peter having a neg mod and mid-game-threat Nappy on the continent there is definite tension and having a peaceful game the whole game seems doubtful...However, given the goals of the game I don't know that I'm a huge fan of launching an invasion of Peter at this point. If we're going to war, then Peter is for sure the target, especially with his capital right there, but does this take us away from what we are trying to do? I don't know...If war is the way you want to go though Aelf, I'm cool with that, especially with elephants and hwatchas
That silver city in the north is very low food and lots of tundra...I'd recommend sending some fog-busters up there and settling it once your economy can absorb the hit from some garbage cities like that

I'd recommend the southern coastal spot for sure to open up at least some workable coastal tiles. The northern one, while it grabs some resources is worse imo.
How is our standing with Saladin right now? If we settle the orange spot and he is nearby I wonder if we are going to start getting tension there. I wouldn't want to see us having friction with all civs on the continent when trying for a "peaceful"

game (can never trust nappy imo).