The gender equality paradox

Anyway, my questions are - to what extent are people influenced by society to conform to gender roles? Can the differences between sexes be put down to biology? Are woman in fact simply programmed to be attracted to the caring professions with a lot of human interactions like medicine and nursing? Likewise, are men in general attracted to how objects and systems work? If we look at the majority of the Western world, many education systems have pushed women into fields dominated by men by encouragement and even financial incentives yet men still dominate these fields. Why don't women want to enter engineering and why do men not wish to enter nursing?

I don't know the answer to these questions per se, but what I can say is it's a documented fact that women tend to be irrational and emotional, and thus are less-suited to tasks that require intellectual rigor. Being a mother, on the other hand, is easy and they are biologically suited to it. This may seem offensive but it's the truth.

"Equality" as a concept advanced by feminists, communists, Nazis, etc. is just fundamentally unworkable. You wouldn't try to enforce equality between a tyrannosaurus rex and a beetle, would you? Why bother enforcing equality between men and women?
 
We gotta ask ourselves, though, if culture in societies as disparate as Western Europe and Japan (and really any "advanced culture" I can think of) developed some similar (though by no means identical) "gender roles", shouldn't we at least seriously suspect biological differences played a role in their development?

You might reasonably think so, but advanced industrialized countries see some serious cultural convergence.

Which is not to say they are "correct". I for one would never argue that we ought to revert to hunter-gatherer status and assume that we are forced to live "as evolution intended". Modern society allows people to take all sorts of roles they couldn't before, and of course this is specially true for women (women can be effective soldiers today, obviously they couldn't in the past).

OTOH, I don't see equality as a supreme good either. If men and women have some different capabilities and preferences, what's wrong with that? There's no point in trying to make the genders equal. In fact personally I would very much dislike a world where women behave as competitively and aggressively as men, among other stuff.
So you personally prefer women not act in ways that you might find antagonizing and personally unattractive, also ways in which women behave so as to credibly achieve economic equality with men... honestly man this basically reads like you like things when they better serve you. The unwritten implication is women should get back in the kitchen.

Hold on, hold on, I know you didn't say that and I know you don't mean that. But you did kinda say you'd prefer a world in which women just didn't want to try to outcompete men, which means their place is to be subservient so long as our status comes from competitive victories. And their role will clearly be support and auxiliary to male endeavors. That's the most straightforward implication of what you wrote.

Anywayz.

If women and men have some different capabilities and preferences, there is nothing morally wrong that at difference. But none of those differences seem to create a capability gap in being able to thrive in The Market (caps). The thing is, if there are differences, like let's pretend women were in fact slightly biologically weaker in math reasoning. The amount of lost output (of human actualization, but also wealth) created by the stereotype threat of culturally reinforcing this does far more damage to women's math skills than an outset math capacity gap. We know this, because we know that learning advanced math is a skill that requires diligence and practice, and the stereotype threat is an incredibly powerful social force that inhibits learning.

Sorry Hygro, but I just find your reasoning to be an extreme stretch. It just doesn't seem to balance equally the vast amount of information we have, and simply attempt to put all the weight in the one part where there is some doubt while glossing over the countless details that would pull the other way.

Exactly.

I guess I'll try again. Controlling for genetic variables between male and female behavior is incredibly hard. Controlling for cultural variables is much easier. In doing so, we have found that culture is so powerful it can alter personality traits we are totally biased into thinking are natural, like outright displays of competitiveness and hierarchical vs lateral socializing.

So when you try to study biological differences in circumstances where almost always very confounding cultural variables are in play, you are taking a leap of faith in choosing to default that modern social differences


P.S. your "exactly" is you asserting luiz's reasoning supports your claim (and also that it is true)--that it is evidence of your point. The problem is that that luiz's reasoning is empirically backward. The more advanced economies become, the more they converge on social norms as market forces and cultural exchange are a helluva drug. So the more that that happens, the more it makes a case that assuming modern gender norms are a self-replicating cultural construct.
 
I don't know the answer to these questions per se, but what I can say is it's a documented fact that women tend to be irrational and emotional, and thus are less-suited to tasks that require intellectual rigor. Being a mother, on the other hand, is easy and they are biologically suited to it. This may seem offensive but it's the truth.

"Equality" as a concept advanced by feminists, communists, Nazis, etc. is just fundamentally unworkable. You wouldn't try to enforce equality between a tyrannosaurus rex and a beetle, would you? Why bother enforcing equality between men and women?

Women are more emotionally expressive, but how much that is due to biology and how much to society emotional stunting males is unknown. As for irrational I don't know.
 
Women are more emotionally expressive, but how much that is due to biology and how much to society emotional stunting males is unknown. As for irrational I don't know.
In the 1970s really kicked off a growing trend of raising boys to be able to express feelings, be "sensitive" etc. It seems to be that as this trend has gotten increasingly widespread, the gap between men and women being able to express emotions has really shrunk. Again, could there be a biological component? Sure. But is there a known cultural component that is malleable and far stronger than any biological difference that's affecting the results? There is.
 
You might reasonably think so, but advanced industrialized countries see some serious cultural convergence.
Naturally, but I didn't mean only advanced industrialized countries. You can look at pre-industrial Europe, Japan, the Islamic world, etc etc... there is definitely a pattern.

So you personally prefer women not act in ways that you might find antagonizing and personally unattractive, also ways in which women behave so as to credibly achieve economic equality with men... honestly man this basically reads like you like things when they better serve you. The unwritten implication is women should get back in the kitchen.
Of course I like things when they better serve me. Don't we all? :p

It has nothing to do with going back to the kitchen, though.

Hold on, hold on, I know you didn't say that and I know you don't mean that. But you did kinda say you'd prefer a world in which women just didn't want to try to outcompete men, which means their place is to be subservient so long as our status comes from competitive victories. And their role will clearly be support and auxiliary to male endeavors. That's the most straightforward implication of what you wrote.
I wouldn't say subservient, or even auxiliary. I don't like subservience, in women or anyone. I just don't like, on a personal level, "masculine" behavior on women (that is, I'm not interested in those women. Doesn't mean I don't respect them in the workplace, in which case they are indeed just like one of the guys). My point was that for me personally if all women behaved like "one of the guys" the world would be a sad sad place.

I guess what I'm trying to say is that of course women should be entirely free to behave as they want, but I don't think we should necessarily encourage masculine behavior and preferences.

Anywayz.

If women and men have some different capabilities and preferences, there is nothing morally wrong that at difference. But none of those differences seem to create a capability gap in being able to thrive in The Market (caps). The thing is, if there are differences, like let's pretend women were in fact slightly biologically weaker in math reasoning. The amount of lost output (of human actualization, but also wealth) created by the stereotype threat of culturally reinforcing this does far more damage to women's math skills than an outset math capacity gap. We know this, because we know that learning advanced math is a skill that requires diligence and practice, and the stereotype threat is an incredibly powerful social force that inhibits learning.
I don't actually believe the stereotype that women are inherently worse in math. I believe they tend to be less interested in it, which is easy to confuse with being worse at. Just like men tend to be far less interested in the caring professions (the ones who are interested aren't any worse, at least from what I've seen). I think this is too strong to be a cultural thing; if I had to be a nurse I'd hang myself.

I'm not trying to make any overly sophisticated point here. My POV is merely that the sexes are very different in a number of ways, let's embrace the diversity instead of trying to force uniformity. I mean, we wouldn't make females compete with males in sports just to pretend we're all equal, when we clearly aren't. I see no point in assuming women should be more like men (if you think about it that's kind of sexist as it assumes being "masculine"is the correct way for all humans to behave). And just to be clear, I'm all for female CEOs, Presidents and etc. I'm just happy most girls don't have that kind of personality.
 
(women can be effective soldiers today, obviously they couldn't in the past).

Oh hey look another piece of complete malarkey that is easily refutable with a link

I'll just go ahead and quote the most important part:

When I sat down with one of my senior professors in Durban, South Africa to talk about my Master’s thesis, he asked me why I wanted to write about women resistance fighters.

“Because women made up twenty percent of the ANC’s militant wing!” I gushed. “Twenty percent! When I found that out I couldn’t believe it. And you know – women have never been part of fighting forces –”

He interrupted me. “Women have always fought,” he said.

“What?” I said.

“Women have always fought,” he said. “Shaka Zulu had an all-female force of fighters. Women have been part of every resistance movement. Women dressed as men and went to war, went to sea, and participated actively in combat for as long as there have been people.”
 
You might reasonably think so, but advanced industrialized countries see some serious cultural convergence.
I don't see how it's surprising that there is a huge cultural convergence in a globalized world of information.
The unwritten implication is women should get back in the kitchen.
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That's the most straightforward implication of what you wrote.
That's both pretty insulting and purposedly twisting his point. Not liking agressive and competitive behaviour from the person you share your life means you want a slave ? Seriously ?
There is so many things wrong with this I don't know where to even begin...
I guess I'll try again. Controlling for genetic variables between male and female behavior is incredibly hard. Controlling for cultural variables is much easier. In doing so, we have found that culture is so powerful it can alter personality traits we are totally biased into thinking are natural, like outright displays of competitiveness and hierarchical vs lateral socializing.

So when you try to study biological differences in circumstances where almost always very confounding cultural variables are in play, you are taking a leap of faith in choosing to default that modern social differences
I undertand and agree somewhat with your point.
My problem is the totally unbalanced way in which you weight the informations, which seems suspiciously fueled by a desire to reach wanted results hiding behind an excessively conservative take on the data, rather than a genuine attempt at being objective.

It's obvious that nurture can overwrite a lot of nature when it comes to behaviour (the japanese soldiers were killing themselves in drove for absolutely no gain just out of an ingrained weird sense of "honour" that was totally artificial, for instance, while naturally we would strive to survive).

I still don't see how it makes irrelevant the titanic amount of evidences that men and women are "naturally" quite different in behaviours and that most of the typical ones they are culturally assigned stem directly from these biological differences.

Humans are adaptable. I don't validate the argument that the existence of adaptability makes impossible to see and recognize the inherent trends it can overpower.
P.S. your "exactly" is you asserting luiz's reasoning supports your claim (and also that it is true)--that it is evidence of your point. The problem is that that luiz's reasoning is empirically backward. The more advanced economies become, the more they converge on social norms as market forces and cultural exchange are a helluva drug. So the more that that happens, the more it makes a case that assuming modern gender norms are a self-replicating cultural construct.
See right above. I don't see how the obvious fact that culture can overpower nature in some ways change the fact that there is still strong natural tendencies.
 
Yeah, gut reactions always trump facts when dealing with history.

Of course that website has as much validity as me claiming that actually all the best warriors throughout history were from Mars. It's not a proper source, it's an obscure sci-fi website.

And I don't doubt that the Zulus and possibly many other tribes had female warriors. Doesn't mean that they were as effective as the male soldiers.

I can't believe anyone would actually dispute this point. If anything a case can be made that even in the post-industrial world men are still more effective soldiers, though of course the gap narrowed enormously.

But to think that women were as effective legionaires, or hoplites, or knights, or whatever, is completely ridiculous and of course you know that. But hey, there's nothing wrong in re-writing history if it makes us feel warm and fuzzy, right?

Let's also claim that women are as good boxers as men, as good marathonists, as good football players... Yeah that sounds really accurate.
 
Of course that website has as much validity as me claiming that actually all the best warriors throughout history were from Mars. It's not a proper source, it's an obscure sci-fi website.
Some guy posting on a video game forum, now that has credibility.

But hey, there's nothing wrong in re-writing history if it makes us feel warm and fuzzy, right?
You seem happy with it, yeah.

Let's also claim that women are as good boxers as men, as good marathonists, as good football players... Yeah that sounds really accurate.
How would you know? You've said before you're scared to watch women box.
 
Some guy posting on a video game forum, now that has credibility.


You seem happy with it, yeah.


How would you know? You've said before you're scared to watch women box.

I don't think you really disagree with my entirely obvious and non-controversial statement that in the pre-industrial world, women were not as effective soldiers as men. If you do, state as much. If you don't, have a good day.
 
Yeah, gut reactions always trump facts when dealing with history.

Did the link have citations of historical literature? Might be something for me to consider reading.
 
Let's also claim that women are as good boxers as men, as good marathonists, as good football players... Yeah that sounds really accurate.

Well, there are a lot of rather good female runners, boxers and rugby players. I live down the road from a female England prop, and she's a fair bit fitter and stronger than most men. Paula Radcliffe can outrun a fair number of male professional marathon runners. So there's really a few variations on your thesis:

1) All men are better than all women at all 'manly things'
2) The average man is better than the average woman at 'manly things'
3) The best person at 'manly things' will always be a man

It's quite clear from this that, even if you're right, it doesn't justify pidgeonholing those men and women based on their gender rather than their abilities. Looked at another way, almost all of the best basketball players and sprinters are black men. Almost all of the best marathon runners are East African. This doesn't mean, though, that white men and people from outside Kenya should give up on those sports altogether.
 
Well, there are a lot of rather good female runners, boxers and rugby players. I live down the road from a female England prop, and she's a fair bit fitter and stronger than most men. Paula Radcliffe can outrun a fair number of male professional marathon runners. So there's really a few variations on your thesis:

1) All men are better than all women at all 'manly things'
2) The average man is better than the average woman at 'manly things'
3) The best person at 'manly things' will always be a man

It's quite clear from this that, even if you're right, it doesn't justify pidgeonholing those men and women based on their gender rather than their abilities. Looked at another way, almost all of the best basketball players and sprinters are black men. Almost all of the best marathon runners are East African. This doesn't mean, though, that white men and people from outside Kenya should give up on those sports altogether.

Actually, I think the relevant statement would be:

4) The best p% of people at 'manly things' are men.

Where p% is the percentage of people that are needed in society to do manly things. E.g. if the Queen needs an army of 10.000 people who are good at fighting, will they all be men?

And I think for most reasonable values of p, the answer will be no.
 
Ah, yes, DF has it right for this purpose. For example, in 2013, the best woman runner in the London Marathon would have come 13th had she entered as a man. If you needed 100 marathon runners out of the thousands who competed, therefore, quite a chunk of them would be women.
 
Ah, yes, DF has it right for this purpose. For example, in 2013, the best woman runner in the London Marathon would have come 13th had she entered as a man. If you needed 100 marathon runners out of the thousands who competed, therefore, quite a chunk of them would be women.

Indeed. The Roman army had 125.000 men in its legions.* If someone asks why they were all men, and the answer is that men are more able fighters than women, then you're saying that even the 125.000th most able man was more able than the best woman. I find this unlikely.

* During Augustus, according to wiki
** Where by ability, I mean natural, innate ability, not the nurture part of it.
 
More to the point, I find it hard to believe that some of the rather useless overweight twenty-year-privates that end up skulking around the line infantry couldn't be replaced physically by some of the ladies from the sappers and the like.
 
It's quite clear from this that, even if you're right, it doesn't justify pidgeonholing those men and women based on their gender rather than their abilities.
I don't see where anyone advocated that.
It seemed to me that the discussion was about if there was actual biological differences that made men tend to be better at "manly" things and women tend to be better at "feminine" things.

I'd say that it's pretty unarguable that (againagainagain : statistically speaking) men have a MASSIVE advantage in physical power (and a substancial one in psychological mindset, though this one is much more malleable through culture), and as such women warriors, though they DID exist, were the exception (VERY exceptionnal) rather than the norm.
Actually, I think the relevant statement would be:

4) The best p% of people at 'manly things' are men.
No, the relevant (and very obvious and logical) statement would be :

5) Among the best p% of people at "manly things", the vast majority would be men.

The other formulations are trying really, REALLY hard at casting the most obvious concept in the most twisted ways in order to make them either false or sexist (or both).
 
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