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The existence of a concept on television does not seem to praise its merits IRL. Or rather, one does not follow the other. I am not a believer of Norse paganism because I enjoyed watching Thor, nor am I a supporter of Russia's doping program because I liked The Winter Soldier. Subsequently, there is no reason to think one would love the monarchy in real life if they once enjoyed some kind of media that had a noble in it.
Likewise, I'm not religious just because I've read the bible. And there are "bible drama" movies I enjoy;
The Ten Commandments was an annual staple in my family for many years, even though nobody in my family was particularly religious (my grandmother might have been a bit; my grandfather definitely wasn't, and my dad would have gotten along great with Berzerker as he was into UFOs and ancient aliens). My grandmother was just a Charlton Heston fan, and finally convinced me to watch
Ben-Hur as well. I enjoy it for the chariot race scene, which was an incredible feat of filmmaking. But these movies never convinced me that the faith the main characters followed had any relevance to my own life.
How-
ever... I realized, when I took anthropology in college, that even though I personally don't believe in any deities or spirits, that religion has been a kind of "social glue" that's been around ever since the first humans were capable of abstract thought enough to wonder why things happened and to try to come up with explanations. The Neanderthals had religion; archaeology has found evidence of this.
So I'm not going to go around like some other atheists and say religion is terrible and should be eradicated because so many terrible things were done in its various names. Humans aren't ready to give it up yet. I don't know if our species ever will be.
Clearly we're also not ready to give up forms of government like monarchy. Real life isn't like a game of Civ; when we switch from Monarchy to whatever in the game, we don't tend to go back to it (though I did a couple of times in Test of Time, as my orbital cities were about to starve under that scenario's version of Republic and I hadn't gotten the tech needed to quell civil disorder).
It also has slavery and fascism as forms of government, but I shouldn’t think your being a member here signals tacit approval for for either of those things, nor your opposition to them to be a form of hypocrisy.
I'm unfamiliar with any form of Civ that has slavery as a form of government, and if Civ I or II have fascism as a form of government, you'll have to refresh my memory on that.
Again, this strikes me a bizarre point to make, unless you are suggesting that being a feminist and opposing patriarchy while also enjoying Handmaid’s Tale is likewise hypocritical behavior deserving of censure.
I'd start a Handmaid's Tale thread if I thought that anyone but myself would ever post in it. It's hard to say what's
enjoyable about it. It's not just a TV show or book to me. I did mention growing up in a family where my grandfather flat-out told me that as a girl, I had no right to my own opinions until I was an adult. When I turned 18, he said I had no right to my own opinions until I was married, and then my opinions would be whatever my husband's opinions were.
I think in that moment, I decided that marriage was something I would never do. At least my dad valued my opinions, whether or not they agreed with his. And after my grandfather's death came many years of de-programming, of unlearning certain behaviors and thought patterns, and trying to understand
why my grandfather thought as he did - and explain it to my mother, who had hated him because he pulled that patriarchy thing with her (something I hadn't known until she told me many years later, after my grandmother died). That's why I get so defensive and angry here sometimes, if someone's said something that triggers bad memories.
It just seems necessary to me. I have a personal connection to the patriarchy thing. It was part of my life, and so I get THT in ways that lots of other people don't.
You can find misogynists making very similar arguments for why the franchise should be restricted to male property holders in the 19th and early 20th centuries.
You can find people making those arguments right now on the comment pages on the news site I read. And I've been told to my face that "I didn't know people like you were allowed to vote!" (referring to disabled people). Yes, we are. Yes, there is an entire section of the Elections Canada online manual that lays out how we can do it. But someone rewrote it at some point to deny people like me the right to a
secret ballot. That's actually a Charter violation - discrimination on the basis of disability.
It just strikes me as really odd that people can say "Monarchy is horrible and should be eradicated everywhere and for all time and should never have existed" and then settle down to enjoy a movie about characters who are either monarchs or want to be monarchs or play games in which monarchy is something necessary to win.
About the closest I ever came to playing games to do with religion is a recent discovery on Steam of a game of Senet. That's Egyptian mythology - the journey of the dead person's soul to the underworld. When I play Civ, temples and cathedrals don't get built unless I have a severe civil disorder problem. The religion-based wonders get built for the points bonus. I care less if my people are happy than if they're literate and not starving, and tech advances chug along at a good clip.
I voted no because after seeing the tributes and cult like devotion that many Brits have shown over these past hours since the Queen's death, it has come to my apparent attention that British people (more specifically English people) need a monarchy.
In other words the idolatrous displays by ordinary plebs in giving offerings of flowers and trinkets (payed for in their own money by the way during a time when British people are getting slammed by high inflation while the royal family is filthy rich) to an individual that they have hardly known in person shows that the Queen has essentially become a stand in deified figure not too dissimilar to a pharaoh.
Therefore I fear monarchy having been made quite obvious to me, the pharaonic institution of the average English person, now requires them to continue worshipping and idolizing or else risk having the wool peeled from their eyes and decent into an endless death spiral of degeneracy should their only "gods" be proven to be dead.
You've just made a great case for stopping the practice of flowers at funerals and all public memorials, like leaving teddy bears at the death scenes where children have died. It's not worship. It's a sign of sadness and respect. If people choose to spend money on that, it's their problem, not yours.
Valka, think what you're saying. I only ever win Civ games by domination, but i'm not a fan of brutal wars of conquest in real life. Monarchy isn't even the best government type in any civ game i've played. In 3 you generally want to go for a more modern type as soon as you can get it (or you skip monarchy and go Republic if you're playing more peacefully), in 4 Hereditary Rule is generally discarded in favor of a more modern government civic as soon as possible - it can also be skipped altogether if you build the Pyramids.
I have never played any Civ higher than II, and at that, I prefer Test of Time, either the Midgard (fantasy scenario) or Lalande (science fiction version).
As mentioned, I go for tech, as fast as I can get it. I normally have the equivalent of Railroad and orbital shuttles before the calendar ticks over to the CE side. The thing about ToT is that there are factions that can research techs that you cannot research, and you either need to get the tech that allows you to communicate with them (a long way off), the Wonder that lets you get free tech if they've discovered it, or spies to steal it. That means keeping those factions alive until
they discover the techs you need - so going on a rampage of killing is something you cannot do in those games unless it's the factions that don't have what you need.
So I might not have much respect for how a faction conducts itself, but I have to respect and push them to discover knowledge. Sometimes if they take too long or they're at imminent risk of death from barbarians, I will
gift them technology to give them a boost and help them defend themselves. I can always kill them later, after I don't need them anymore.
And as you say, this doesn't mean I like warfare in real life. I don't like a lot of what the British monarchy presided over, even if they personally didn't go out and do stuff. The Queen herself did not personally haul indigenous children from their homes in the 1960s and sell them in black market adoptions to childless couples in the U.S. and Europe. She just happened to be Queen at the time this was done. The Sixties' Scoop is something that I just learned about a few years ago - it's not something that was ever taught in any social studies course in Canadian schools until recently.
The "spiritual grandmother" thing is how some people felt about the Queen Mother, and someone mentioned on CBC.ca that it's how they felt about the Queen. This is a sentiment that has been around for centuries. Queen Elizabeth I said something about being "married to England" and therefore had no need of a husband, and waaaay back in Roman times, Livia Augusta was styled as the Mother to the Empire (however it was worded).
I'm pretty sure nobody is ever going to opine that Charles feels like their "spiritual grandfather."
As I said on another site, I'm fairly sure that serving in the navy, as he did, counts as a job.
It really gets me that "does not want a Republic" is taken as synonymous with "I want the royals to rule me".
Exactly.
the profitability argument is such a silly one on the face of it anyway, as Syn noted already. Monarchy ought to be abolished because it is morally wrong, not because it is financially wasteful! It would still be wrong and deserving of abolition even if it were lucrative!
Like imagine applying this argument to suffrage: is your support for extending women the right to vote contingent solely on the presumption that they are, in fact, capable of “rational thought” and would be rescinded if it were demonstrated otherwise? Or is it the case that women ought to have the vote because denial of equal voting rights is undemocratic and immoral?
As I recall hearing, one of the arguments against allowing women to vote was, "What's the point? They'd only vote the same way their husbands vote, and it would just make twice the work" (to count the ballots; presumably it never occurred to them that unmarried women might want to vote).
This attitude was exhibited by my grandfather during an election in the '80s, after Jim Keegstra was stripped of his teaching license for Holocaust denial and teaching his hatred of Jews to his high school social studies students. My grandfather was also anti-Jewish, and when Keegstra decided to run for the Social Credit party, my grandfather declared he intended to vote for him. Of course he assumed the rest of us would follow suit, and I told my grandmother, "Vote for who you want to. You don't have to vote the same way Grandad does" (I knew my grandmother wanted to vote NDP).
My grandfather was not pleased by this, and childishly said, "Well, my vote cancels yours!"
And then he really wasn't happy when I told him, "I'm voting NDP too - so it's two to one." And then my dad came in and it was three to one...
We all went to vote anyway. And of course the Conservative candidate won. That's how it's always been here federally. But at least I did get my grandmother to realize that she didn't have to obey my grandfather just because he said "jump." It took more work after he died to get her to realize that she did not need to carry on with the same criticisms of me that he used to do. I told her, "He's dead. You don't have to be him. Just stop."
Among the countries of the Anglosphere, I find it surprising that Australia and New Zealand still have the British monarch as head of state (for some weird reason I don't find it so surprising in Canada's case, don't ask me why).
One reason could be that we're literally closer. It's easier to go back and forth. One of our modern-era Prime Ministers was born in England (John Turner; he actually had a relationship at one time with Princess Margaret) and I had a TIL moment yesterday when someone posted that Camilla has family in Canada.
But also, we are saturated with news and pop culture from the U.S. and much of it is baffling and appalling. We don't want that for ourselves, and staying with the constitutional monarchy for government and the Commonwealth is a way of helping to not be assimilated into the U.S.
I'm not a direct descendent of William the Conqueror or Edward III, but I am almost certainly descended from them in some fashion. Time makes us all related in the end.
We're all related via the primordial soup, and going back far enough, via the nebula our solar system condensed from.
Rather than let your fellow citizens choose your leader you'd take a chance on the whims of genetics?
Your contempt for and mistrust of the people of your country must be pretty high.
Have you seen what's on offer lately? The federal Conservative leadership race just concluded and the winner was a guy who was involved in helping Stephen Harper cheat his way to a "win" in 2011 and who supported the "Freedom Convoy" of truckers who shut down part of Ottawa with their "protest" - and the ones out in Alberta who shut down the international border at Coutts, who had weapons with them and intended to kill a bunch of people, including cops. THAT's what this potential Prime Minister supports.
His appointments are usless and in fact his educational officer resigned just 5 months at how usless she is.
I wish the provincial Minister of Education in my province would realize just how useless she is and resign.