What are you missing & what are you appreciating?

D&D seems like it would translate into an on-line activity a lot better than dancing would.
It would. I'm not familiar with online tables, wife doesn't have a headset and not in the mood to play.
I spent a couple of years on a gaming forum where a large part of the site was devoted to PBP games (play-by-post). Nobody used cameras or headsets, and since the forum didn't allow pictures to be posted, they had to do without maps as well, unless they posted links to them elsewhere.

I remember dropping in one day and reading some of the posts in a campaign that had gone on for most of those two years and a bit that I was on that forum, and the players didn't miss a single day of some posting and progress. About half a dozen people were involved, it was very organized, and reading the threads from an outsider's perspective was fascinating; it was like reading a play, imagining how the action would look, but at the same time the characters in the play would be discussing (in an OOC thread) the technical aspects of the play. I should think that a lot of PMing was going on as well.

Back in CFC's day when we had social groups, a lot of the NES/IOT activities used social groups for OOC conversations or strategy. I wasn't a participant, but as a moderator at the time, I was asked to help now and then with setting up these groups if someone didn't know how to do something.

PBP games would be easier here, since image posting is allowed. I know it's like reading/writing a script or present-tense story rather than watching it unfold on a stage (or being one of the actors), but it's better than nothing.

I once participated in a PBEM game of Civilization (the original board game). We were spread out in several different countries, lots of time zones, and the host still made it work. Of course some of us had alliances and talked strategy by private email, and the host provided updated maps after every turn so we could see who was where.
 
I miss restaurant food, any kind but mostly taco bell and pizza. My wife is so anxious about the virus she won't let us order a pizza. I miss going to the gym, space from my family and my commute and lunches alone to listen to music or watch netflix during.

I am appreciating though the exact opposites of those, cooking at home and having more time to do it, being with my family and not having to get up early to go to the gym.

Life is balance. I don't want it to go completely one way where I only eat out and am never with my family and always have early morning workouts. But I don't want it all the opposite either, which is basically what it is now. But I'm appreciating it for what it is. I played about 3 hours of memory card games with my daughter between yesterday and today. She kicks my butt. It's fun.
 
Wife's only working one day next week taking some leave plus Easter.

Spending more time togather has been fun, she's more anxious than me I just had my anxiety earlier almost 3 weeks ago.
 
I played about 3 hours of memory card games with my daughter between yesterday and today. She kicks my butt. It's fun.
You know those games (where you have to turn over 2 cards the same) are one of the few things that children tend to beat adults, and chimpanzees tend to beat humans.
 
You know those games (where you have to turn over 2 cards the same) are one of the few things that children tend to beat adults, and chimpanzees tend to beat humans.

I wonder why that is? Her memory is really good though. She remembers the most obscure things.

I can sometimes beat her with strategy. Like locating three or four cards and then I go fishing for the match two at a time. Meanwhile she always flips the one she knows and then searches for a match. Or process of elimination when the remaining matches are lower.
 
I miss restaurant food, any kind but mostly taco bell and pizza. My wife is so anxious about the virus she won't let us order a pizza.
Tell her that somebody on your forum who is in the at-risk group has had three occasions of getting take-out delivered. I'm okay.

Of course it does mean either paying online so you're not paying the driver, or else using gloves (and the drivers keep the debit machines sanitized).

The restaurant I ordered from last time just asked a few questions and when I told them that I'd been at home for the past month, lived on the ground floor so there would be no stair rails or elevator buttons to touch, the staff was constantly disinfecting the public spaces anyway, deliveries were allowed in the building, and I wasn't sick, they said they had no problem delivering my food.

So the above qualifies as what I'm appreciating. The food delivery people aren't afraid to come to my door.

They should have a talk with the person who delivers from the pharmacy. She won't even come in the building.
 
I mostly miss the places I'd take my son. We would go to the aquarium, go to swim lessons at a nice, warm indoor pool, go out for frozen yogurt and a movie... also breakfast at Dennys.

I appreciate the fact that I'm here while my daughter is really starting to talk. It's something I barely got to see with my son.

I also love coming up from my "office" and having the two of them decide that they want to make a game of hugging me over and over again lol. It's cute.
 
If I did have a working stove and frying pan or some other way to prepare fresh eggs, I'd appreciate my across-the-hall neighbor. I heard hammering over there a few minutes ago and saw a note pinned to their door.

Thank goodness it's not a quarantine notice. Instead it's a notice that they're selling "farm-fresh" eggs. There are some stores around here where the eggs get snapped up early in the day, so no doubt there will be tenants who take them up on this. There are quite a few kids in this building, so I'd imagine at least some of them will be colored for Easter.

I get my eggs in the form of various deli items, so I'm okay for that.
 
I miss news about news.
:lol: Too true.

I miss going to Kayla'a, enjoying its delicious food, and gazing out over its gardens, pool, and beach at the sea.
I appreciate having the kids home from school OTOH, the kids are now always home.
I miss the morning TV news, which here, has been replaced by the daily orgy of Trump corona misinformation.
I appreciate the internet and Lotus, the Macao TV station showing [usually] really good movies.
I miss XFL. The last time I enjoyed [American] football was my first year out of college; then XFL came & weeks later is gone.
I appreciate my humongous collection of DVD & CD movies & TV shows. [We have no streaming services]
I appreciate the drop in traffic noise past my house.
 
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On the other hand, I now have a toaster I won't be able to use until the package has been self-isolated in Maddy's room for about a week (they're recommending disinfecting all mail, but since I am not able to do that - can't really see washing cardboard boxes with soap and water - everything is piling up while it takes a sunbath).

Honestly, if I had to give up anything in the kitchen, I'd pick the dishwasher because I use so few dishes that I really don't need it. But it's an integral part of the setup here, so I can't ask for them to remove it and put in an extra cupboard or drawers instead.

This kitchen is tiny...
 
On the other hand, I now have a toaster I won't be able to use until the package has been self-isolated in Maddy's room for about a week (they're recommending disinfecting all mail, but since I am not able to do that - can't really see washing cardboard boxes with soap and water - everything is piling up while it takes a sunbath).

Honestly, if I had to give up anything in the kitchen, I'd pick the dishwasher because I use so few dishes that I really don't need it. But it's an integral part of the setup here, so I can't ask for them to remove it and put in an extra cupboard or drawers instead.

This kitchen is tiny...

I've piled up stuff like cans and dry goods in the spare room and hallway.
 
What aspects of non-corona society do you miss the most?

I mostly miss gym, chess club, people watching, yoga classes, kava bar. In pretty much that order.

I'm appreciating less traffic in the streets and it might be placebo but the air smells better.

I also feel less social shame about being underemployed when a third of others also are.

You can work out outside and go jogging with one friend (where i live), you can play on lichess with friends, you can do yoga at home or with a friend/gf

I feel the same. I actually go out a lot more, because I enjoy the spring and freedom to do so in Latvia. I enjoy walking alone super early in the morning when it is super silent. Sunrise is euphoric.
 
Right now, nothing. My life has seriously improved.
 
You can work out outside and go jogging with one friend (where i live), you can play on lichess with friends, you can do yoga at home or with a friend/gf

I feel the same. I actually go out a lot more, because I enjoy the spring and freedom to do so in Latvia. I enjoy walking alone super early in the morning when it is super silent. Sunrise is euphoric.
I've been working out at the park daily but seriously bored and feeling isolated

When society reopens I'm going to be more aggressive in pursuing what I want from life. Kind of like how people realize what's important when they get cancer
 
I'm enjoying not having to commute to work, am still employed, working from home.

I'm spending all the extra time with my small family and am enjoying that, getting outside with them at different times every day is great. Getting back when they are tired isn't the same.

I have a decent home office so am fine that way.

The country road I live on is usually busy with cars skipping traffic on the main road and people coming and going so I am enjoying how quiet it is when out for walks, bar the odd tractor.

I'm missing bringing my kids to my parents as it is a bit risky, my mother would be bringing my eldest gardening now normally.
 
I'm having trouble keeping the house orderly. I am accustomed to letting it go over the weekend when my gf is off work, and even though she is working from home the dogs and I have been responding like it is just one long weekend.
 
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