What are your biggest turn-ons? (No booby jokes please)

[Sophie 378]

The What are your biggest turnoffs? thread bumped my curiosity. What are the biggest turn-ONs for people? What are the first things you notice if you're "talent-spotting"? What things do you hunt for when you already know people, what else would you look for if you spotted someone hot? What are your [personal] physical and personality preferences?

If I'm what a girlfriend calls "talent-spotting", the first thing I notice is a guy's hair, funny as it sounds. I like shortish hair (1-10cm) that I could play with, but not long and in-the-wayish. Then I take a quick body scan - if they're not horrendously overweight or underweight or otherwise physically repellant, I zoom in on the face. Cheekbones are good, very bad skin is bad, and for some reason facial hair annoys me. I notice eyes as well, though I can't really pin down any preferences.

Now those are just the first things that I'll notice about someone. If I already know them, or if I've trying to get to know them because of the physical things, then there are some things about guys that I really like - and some that I really don't. I get dreamy about clever, musical people (classical music rather than modern shouting-at-a-guitar), especially if they're in the sciences. Maybe it's my upbringing, maybe it's my genetics, but I just seem to feel those are the most important things about a potential boyfriend.

So, what do all you people notice and look for?

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I hope this thread isn't going too far ... I just mean it in a flirting or appreciating-the-opposite-sex way.

 

[Xanikk999]

If a bunch of hot naked women came over to my house and asked if they could stay forever and if they could be my sex slaves and do anything i want. Oh and they are hot also!

That would be a nice turn on.

 

[Gibsie]

I have no standards, I'm easy. Well, really, they just have to be nice. And not a moron. That eliminates 99.9% of the population, however.

 

[Xanikk999]

Actually seriously a big turn on for me would be for once any girl to say i was hot. Even my past girlfriend never said that.

 

[Strider]

Physically? I don't like the long-legged big breasted girls that everyone seems to love. I prefer someone who isn't over-weight, with good skin, and small-medium breasts. Strangely enough, I like to snuggle... so someone who is fairly soft is always a bonus .

Personality wise, I prefer someone which is my opposite. I don't like to talk, so I prefer a girl who talks way to much .

Other than that, she can't be self-centered, "drama-queen", or completely stupid. Also, a girl who turns you down when you ask for sex just makes her much more attractive .

 

[Xanikk999]

I have to add if there was a attractive girl who was obsessed with video games like me.. that would be a MAJOR turn on!!!

 

[Riesstiu IV]

Petit girls are a turn on for me since I’m rather tallish. Eye contact is nice as is cuddling. I like intelligent girls who enjoy classical music. It’s hard to have any respect for someone like Paris Hilton, whose physical attractiveness is set off by her shear stupidity and arrogance. I don’t care about breast size (unless they’re absurdly huge).

 

[Taliesin]

Clear, lively eyes, a real smile that touches them, soft hair, a pleasant laugh, a quick and sensible mind, affection for her family and friends, and a love of nature, literature, and classical music (baroque's even better!).

 

[Perfection]

Boobies are no joking matter.

 

[Taliesin]

And what are yours, Perfection? I hear you like authority figures.

 

[conquer_dude]

Hot, women in bathing suits coming to my house to watch me play guitar.

 

[Yuri2356]

I need someone with a sense of humour, and a tolerance for the bizzare. I'm the sort of person who can declare something completely aubsurd as if it were the most obvious thing in the world. (Such as Earth being not actualy round, but instead a 29-dimentional shape known as a 'sphube'. It's most easily described as a cube, who's every measurable 3-D quality resembles that of a sphere.) They need to know when I've jumped the line from serious discussion to sheer madness, and preferably be able to play along.

 

[MjM]

Hmm. Shortish, hopefully nowhere near as tall as me! Any hair color, (blonde is the best, while red is ok). Physically, big boobs are nice, not huge, definetly not small. Nice legs are good aswell, and a nice butt. The hair has to be long, or at least look very very good short. Her eyes need to be dark or blue, though thats not a real biggy. I like any skin color really, except super charred black, or chalky pale white. She also needs to be cute, and have a nice talking voice.

Personality wise, she has to have at least some intelligence. She needs to not be too outgoing or perky (though somewhat is good) It is also nice if they have the same taste in dress/style/music as me, though this isnt a biggy.

 

[Atlas14]

Brown hair maybe a little past shoulder-length
Intelligent girls that appreciate intelligent conversations
Girls that are already taken

 

[Perfection]

And what are yours, Perfection? I hear you like authority figures.

No, I like to abuse my power as an authority figure to form sexual relations with naive young lasses (with large boobies).

 

[Gibsie]

Who doesn't?

 

[conquer_dude]

That would be me.

 

[Abaddon]

First sophie i notice anything obvious.. be it exceptional legs, face, eyes,breasts, girls nealy always have a feature that it expectional.

Its jut finding the ones that have a personaslityto match.

Fpo exapmple togingh i was out, meeting a girl i had met before... sure thete was a lot of tarts with it all on display, but they were smoking, too obvious etc.


I will post proper turn ons when sober.

But deepthroat is damn damn good!

 

[general_kill]

Turn-ons:

First and fore most, the face. In another thread where they had a test to see what kind of girls I go for, I scored highest in the cuteness category. For me, a cute face and a sexy or innocent voice (and not a bad body) is enough of a turn on to offset most other flaws.

Then I look at what they are wearing, nothing too revealing but I like tight clothing which leaves some to the imagination and is enough to blow my mind.

Average sized boobs. I hate (yes HATE) huge boobs. A c cup is more than enough. I really like the slender look more than the ghetto bootylicious look.

A nice shaped behind. Omg, all men know what I am talking about here. Some asses can drive me mad! I swear I can (and have) walk into poles following a girl like that...

A cute personality, that is such a huge asset for a girl to have, there had been plenty of occasions where I met a girl and didn't feel attract to them until I got to know them. This one girl over the summer was like the epiphany of cute. Omg, I want her soooo bad. I don't think I'm her type though She's a year older than me and we've lost touch since summer. :cries:

 

[amadeus]

Judged on a case-by-case basis. I'd rather basically look for people that are interested and work my way up from there.