Just how bad are these headaches?
A couple of people I've known have died from brain tumours (and they really suffered with fitting and the like), but yours, thankfully, seems to be benign. Still no fun, though.
Go ahead Joecoolyo... I hold no punches and don't expect anyone else to. I'm too old to take things personally and I cannot be insulted.
I had that avatar once.
...you seem a decent human...