What's the problem with Islam, anyway?
Big part of the problem is that many people haven't met many Muslims personally, so they derive their judgement from what they see on the media. And the media doesn't have a habit of reporting: "Hard working Muslim comes home to his loving family".
And we all know that if the media isn't reporting it, it doesn't exist.
The problem with Islam is the relentless army of apologists who make invalid arguments about individuals to avoid tackling the subject. If we change the term to any other ideology:
"Big part of the problem is that many people haven't met many Nazis personally, so they derive their judgement from what they see on the media. And the media doesn't have a habit of reporting: "Hard working Nazi comes home to his loving family".
We see that this argument is completely irrelevant and does not excuse human rights abuses, poor scientific output of Islamic countries, oppression of women, jihad or any of the other many problems about Islam that you seek to avoid by digressing into personalisations.