Thormodr, you raise some interesting points. It seems you've taught in Korea at some point. Some responses:
Yes, Kim Jong Il was more infamous than famous--people do certainly know of him though! And that's why he was on my list. I personally think he was a horrible, brutal leader. But, he is well known. More of my friends from my American collegiate days know of him than they know of Roh Moo yung (the S. Korean president who committed suicide yet was hated during his presidency). That said, I suppose the current UN Secretary General was someone I forgot to mention on my list, hehe.
True, but most suspect they do. There is reasonable, if scant, evidence to the effect that they are working on developing them. For one thing, they do have nuclear reactors, and have constantly been talking about weaponization.
It's true Korea owes a lot to the U.S. I think the reasons why many Koreans resent the U.S. though, include:
a) Some Americans/Western historians love pointing out the U.S. aid, without really recognizing that recent innovations were entirely Korea's own. U.S. (and to some extent, even Japanese) infrastructure helped with the initial push, but Koreans were responsible for actual continued growth. I think some Koreans are miffed that people mention U.S. aid more than recent Korean achievements, and they'd rather have it the other way. Both approaches are wrong, of course.
b) American soldiers killed South Korean civilians during the Korean War. Several of the most infamous incidents of this remain in memory, but the incidents in total found so far number over 100:
http://www.nytimes.com/2010/07/10/world/asia/10comission.html
c) Koreans dislike big powers (and some Koreans are very xenophobic for this reason). This was true historically because Koreans kept getting invaded by China and Japan, and usually won by the skin of their teeth, thus preferring to be vassals to China than deal with more invasions. When they were conquered, they always rose up and ousted them eventually, even the Mongols, even the Manchus.
Um....I really have to disagree about this. In his own day and age, the countryside peasants watched Yi Sunshin dragged to the capital to answer for treason, and they protested that he be released. Chen Lin, a Chinese admiral, openly admired Yi Sunshin, and his fellow Korean commanders (even rebellious Won Gyun, for a time) followed his orders. He was the Korean El Cid, and thus when he died, he too, to sustain the morale of Korean soldiers in the final battle of Noryang Point, asked that his death be concealed until the battle was over. He died, basically, at the height of his glory. Dunno where you're getting the ignominy aura from. Yi Sunshin was only unpopular among some factions of the Korean court, which was full of intrigue and backstabbing (and to some extent the Korean government remains that way to this day, unfortunately).
The Turtle Ship wasn't invented during Admiral Yi's time, if that's where you're getting this from. It was invented much earlier in the Choson Dynasty, and that's where most people get the "it was the first armored ship in world history" bit from. That said, Yi Sunshin is so often tied to the Turtle Ship that people assume he invented it (some South Koreans I met recently thought so, and I corrected them. They didn't believe me, lol).
Agreed. I don't eat kimchi often myself. Quite a few of my friends, including one from Pakistan, eat it as often as they can and praise its spicy taste. I do like kimchi when it's been cooked though. Can't stand the regular fermented taste. Personal preference though. Nearly all my Korean family members love it to bits.
Yes, but Korea was a major proponent of Buddhism, and its trade with Japan stirred its rise there quite a bit. The first metal type in the world (invented by Koreans) was expressly used to type out Buddhist texts (Tripitaka Koreana). Furthermore, several of Korea's most famous wonders, Hwangnyongsa Pagoda, Bulguksa, Seokugram among them, were centers of Buddhism. They were the Korean equivalent of Christian cathedrals. The Seon Buddhist movement during the Silla period I believe, bears strong similarity in its beliefs and textual emphasis to Zen Buddhist texts. Also, there is proof that Silla had relations with Yamato Japan, and I believe this is around the period where the earliest Japanese texts about Buddhism date to (early ADs). If I were Buddhist I'd probably know more about this than I do. XD
Being the middle man isn't impressive per se, but it does grant you a certain influence and power. During the Ancient Choson days, the Ancient Choson kingdom was able to gain much trade from southern Korea and Japan, blocking the Han Chinese. This is one speculated reason as to why the Han Chinese eventually invaded and toppled the Ancient Choson (until the Korean kingdom of Goguryeo later ousted them and took over huge swathes of land in Manchuria).
My uncle and aunt had their honeymoon there. The blossoms were very impressive in those photos!