Would u date and marry a divorcee with kids ??

[Ramius75]

Will u date a divorcee or any person but he/she has a kid/kids ?? Even if u feel that he/she is the "right" person for u. But will u mind the kids ?? Are u ready for a kids ? Both financially and mentally ?

Will appreciate if eleborate why the choice.
Thank you for the contribution and sharing of experiences.

Ramius

 

[Mapache]

You could have asked for the marital state. Gender however doesn't vary much here.

 

[Pasi Nurminen]

Date? Why not, older women in their thirties are all the rage right now.

 

[Mapache]

Date? Why not, older women in their thirties are all the rage right now.

There is a voting possibility.

 

[Ramius75]

You could have asked for the marital state. Gender however doesn't vary much here.

Was curious if there is any different when it comes to female and male choices in accepting a partner with kids.

Of coz, it is presume here that both parties are not attached at the moment. Whereelse one of the party is a person with kid/kids of his/her own.

Ramius

 

[joacqin]

I have done so in the past and nothing good came of it. Hard to give a blanket no though but that is what I do. No chicks with kids.

 

[GenMarshall]

No, I dont want to date or marry a divoree that has childen. One major reason is because I am in school and the last thing I want to worry about are children.

 

[slothman]

If you ignore mental and money reasons I would say yes. I wouldn't deny someone just because they have kids. Of course if you add those in maybe not but I would hope my wife would also help if I can't and I probably wouldn't be able to but she would know that if we got married.

 

[Clito]

I wouldn't date a divrocee with kids because:

1. They aren't my kids, but I'd still be expected to act as a father to them. To hell with that if they aren't mine but some other guys kids.

2. She'd still probably talk about her last husband, and that would annoy me.

NO

 

[The Person]

Date, yes, marry, no. Marrying would be taking too much responsibility.

 

[Iggy]

I have dated a few in the past. In those relationships I made it very clear that it was for fun and not for a long term partnership. (I never played "Dad" to the kids and indeed in one case I never even met them.)

 

[Ramius75]

Ok, guys, i like to add that what i mean "to date" here and the poll also means that are into long term relationship to someone with kid/kids. I.e. To get married legally.
Sorry for the confusion.

Ramius

 

[King Alexander]

Yes, I'd date a married a divorsee with kids, and in fact I did had a date in the past, but marrying her I don't know, as I don't think I'm ready for marriage yet.

 

[PantheraTigris2]

Not gonna do it. Thank you, no.....

 

[Iggy]

As someone who is getting married soon I would say that everything depends on the person, however someone elses kids have always put me off having a serious relationship with divorced mums. If I was divorced with kids and met someone in similar circumstances then I would have no issue.

 

[IglooDame]

Yes. We're getting married in January.

 

[Turner]

Dated and married. She wasn't a divorcee when we met, but she had a child from a previous relationship. I adopted him about 3 years after we got together.

 

[luiz]

Today - No. I´m at the University, I can´t worry about kids.

In the future - yeah, why not. Provided that the kids are nice and not some spoiled brats.

 

[HamaticBabylon]

Yes. We're getting married in January.

your kidding right!

 

[CurtSibling]

Getting married is against my ideology - But I imagine any such commitment must hinge upon the persons being the correct match.

I have chosen to fly solo in life - And am glad to have made that choice.


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