Your PMs are full, so here you go. Nothing secret but delete when you've read it if you like:
The Farubaida must at any rate note the version made by myself in the below correspondence, which constitutes my judgement on how the campaign should proceed, and which I had in any case devised prior to the Grandpatriarch's submission.
We would also like to request the Farubaida to be rather less rude to the Grandpatriarch. You are aware that we are not much more enthusiastic about Etraxes's political touch than you are, but he does have a certain measure of influence and troops, is inherently fairly closely tied to both of your allies, and has as much right as anyone else involved in our coalition to bring military strategy for our consideration. As you honour your allies, you must, please, manage at least courtesy for Etraxes, who, while indeed scarcely other than hostile before, is now fighting alongside both of us.