Onejayhawk, I really believe that you on the other hand want to understand maths, but it seems like you haven't learnt it the rigorous way (the definition of the open interval you quoted above is an example of that).
The halo you described above, that's the infinitesimals. People used them around 17th century, but they were highly controversial and were banned when the rigorous concept of the limit was introduced in mid 19th century, although they're still popular today in the maths taught to the appliers.
However, in the 1960s it was shown that infinitesimals can be rigorously constructed. The maths involving them is called
nonstandard analysis. This is a thing I am very hesitant to tell, since IMO people should learn the standard maths properly first before getting into nonstandard analysis (=NSA). It's very easy to form all kinds of misunderstandings of it and for many people the license to use infinitesimals is a license to do bad maths. For example the infinitesimals you encounter in the maths for appliers courses are rarely the consistent infinitesimals.
Now, one thing to notice about these infinitesimals is that
they are not real numbers. They are an addition to the real numbers, just like complex numbers are. They are something stuffed in between the reals. So, in real analysis there is no way any sum, limit or series can be an infinitesimal (or to differ by an infinitesimal from 1, as it would be in the case of this thread).
Another good thing to know is that they don't change anything in the real analysis: everything you can prove of the real numbers with them you can prove without, and vice versa. So, it's a matter of taste whether you use them or the standard analysis. The NSA people are very few, and to much of them it's only a curiosity. Some on the other hand remind more religious fanatics.
The infinitesimals carries a baggage though: If you accept the construction of them, you must accept also the axiom of choice, and if you accept that, you have to accept the Banach-Tarski paradox. Most mathematicians don't have anything against that axiom, but I thought you might. At least the ultrafinitists in this thread would.
Notice also that this doesn't change pretty much anything said in this thread: your intuition isn't necessarily contradictory, but the way you tried to force it in the normal maths is. Your proofs were still faulty, 0.999... still is equals to one, it still isn't in ]0,1[. A limit still can be exactly 1 although the elements of the sequence are strictly less. There still is just one limit of a real number sequence (with the usual topology). A series is still a number and not a sequence, and the sum of it is still by definition the limit of the partial sums.