Look i apologise, genuinely.
This is a very personal topic for me Narz, i would never willingly tolerate or allow anyone to go through the same **** i have. Not for one second, because ultimately there is no "neutral" side in this, you either support what currently is or you try to change it. I opt to try to change it and if people dislike that... so be it, i'm not that interested in compromising because to me it is a matter of life and death and when you take into account the level of suicide and self harm in the transcommunity, then that might help explain why i take this so seriously, because it impacts me and my friends, perhaps alot more than some would first assume.
I don't mistrust people out of paranoia Narz, i do so because my safety is intrinsically tied with me being skeptical, at best, of others intentions. For decades people have been willing to sell my rights down the road for political gain and bar allies and fellow transpeople, the majority simple didn't care enough until it became acceptable to opt in. That isn't okay and i wouldn't expect you to accept it either.
Maybe, it is possible you live in a more tolerant area but i sincerely ask yourself how privy you are to these problems, not because i think you have malicious intent or otherwise, but because it is only human to defer to neutrality and perhaps even willful blindness as a coping mechanism to the nastier sides of society. How many LGBT, PoC, Immigrants etc people have been abused or attacked in your home village/town/city? I suspect there may be more then you realise, nevermind the unreported cases.