GenMarshall
High Elven ISB Capt & Ghost Agent
At least I get something instead of being lonely
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.Either you'll find a women who will change, or doesn't act normally and will reach out to you....or you'll change in order to attract women, and have the confidence to go after them....or you won't form lasting relationships with women. The first option relies on luck, the second on perseverance, and the third on either laziness or deciding not to look for a relationship with a woman. Choose wisely.The "biological default" would need to change for those of us who are love shy, shy in general, or have a fear of rejection to be more sucsessful with women if they approached men like us.
There are plenty of single women. In the US, oddly enough, they seem to be mostly on the East Coast and Midwest.Another question to add to the table:
Is there such thing as a single women? It seems to me that they are a rarity and part of the endangered speaces list because every woman that I come across is eather Married or already has a boyfriend!
GenMarshall
High Elven ISB Capt & Ghost Agent
I look too ugly to change.
I don't know how to get it. There will still be that fear of rejection and the thought of "Is she going to like me" in my mind. It just anoys me that every woman just sees me as a nice guy
I wished I can believe in that statistic, but unfortunately all I see are married women and women with boyfriends in the places I go to: The Mall, Stores, and My College Campus. It's like they are an endangered speaces and I don't know where I would have more success in finding a single unmarried woman.
Masquerouge
Deity
you'll find someone who loves everything about you eventually
The key thing that makes that sentence true is the active voice. It's not "you will be found" but "you will find"...
No you don't. And physical appearance is only part of it.
Stop worrying about it. Is rejection worse than being by yourself? I personally don't fine being single to be terrible, you do. If singleness is worse, then you should be able to overcome your fear of rejection. If you find rejection to be worse, then maybe you should become comfortable being single? It isn't that bad.I don't know how to get it. There will still be that fear of rejection and the thought of "Is she going to like me" in my mind. It just anoys me that every woman just sees me as a nice guy
You live in Canada, right? According to the CIA World Factbook, men do slightly outnumber women in Canada as a whole, but only slightly: 101 men to every 100 women. So realistically, there are nearly as many single women as single men in Canada.
GenMarshall
High Elven ISB Capt & Ghost Agent
I have symptoms of Body dysmorphic disorder. Dispite what anyone says, I still precive myself as ugly and abnormal.
I'm not comfortable with being single.
Nooo, I live in the United States. Connecticut to be exact (and thats as detailed on my location as I will get)
The key thing that makes that sentence true is the active voice. It's not "you will be found" but "you will find"...
yupHave you talked to a psychiatrist about this?
Huh. Well, according to the map I posted earlier, there are more single women in that general area than single men, so you must be looking in the wrong places, or in the wrong way.
aneeshm
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WTH, b etor?
Since when did you come over to CFC?
Since when did you come over to CFC?
GenMarshall
High Elven ISB Capt & Ghost Agent
I only see myself abnormal and ugly. All rooted 10 years ago when all of my classmates in Middle School (including the girls) all picked and made fun of me because I was overweight and had really bad acne. Since then, I never wanted to have myself photographed nor look at any pictures of myself. (Though within a 10 year span, I lost weight and my face cleared up. But I still see myself as ugly)OR you think everyone else is ugly and abnormal too
Masquerouge
Deity
I second Elrohir's comment. It's obvious (heck you admit it yourself) that you have a psychological issue about your physical appearance, and you should seek psychological help.
(And never have I written so many psy- and phy- in one sentence).
Why is it that stalking girls is a bad thing?
Masquerouge
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They usually don't like it.
i do!
well not ask them out, but... yea pretty much asking for the same thing they want.
since after the april fool's joke. 
MjM
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Because you let them.
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