Lain, I am also one of those who lurking for a long time but not writing. When I started to read your Toku game I noted that you only recently started to play (one month ago or so). So, it was very interesting to read someone who were facing the same problem as mine. I like your approach to the victory, I mean that you accept only stong military victory and don't use nukes. So, I had a couple of culture Deity victories or so, but never could do conquest/domination. I cannot say that I did put much effort to it, but it was similar to efforts to Civ 2 OCC Deity and to Civ 3 Deity, where I could win a couple of times. So, I just happy to see how your serious try of the Deity helped you.
When I read you Toku game...I estimated your chances below average when you faced England...And I was very surprised how you made steel and cannons to be the tool of the victory, and moreover your diplo skills was so great! However, this game as Lincoln was even more amazing...With so few land in the beginning you showed all types of war in the game. And the moment where you lost 100 units but continue the game and won eventually is so repectful.
Also your writing and stories show all your struggle and your emotions. I can even say that I am watching it like serial and become very happy when you find solutions in difficult situations. Thank you for sharing! I am pretty sure that after this win we can title you as solid Deity player. I hope we will see at least a couple of similar Deity games unless it becomes boring for you. .