You say that, but how do you verify it? How do you know that there's not a ton of Nazis that you interact with daily, but just don't fit the type that tells you in your face?
Here in Germany we actually have very well organized Nazi groups that look normal, act normal, and give you handouts on the streets that look innocent enough but are designed to pull people towards their circles.
Chances are that they would eventually let something slip out. Or maybe they would break some agreement that said they were to leave such topics out of the conversation.
Back in the 1980s, a high school teacher named Jim Keegstra went on trial in my city for breaking the hate laws. Over the course of a number of years, he indoctrinated his social studies students in anti-Semitic views and Holocaust denial. One of the people who defended him (not a lawyer, but a supporter) was involved in the musical theatre production I was working on that year (he played one of the leads). We all knew where he stood on the issue, and I don't know if he was told not to discuss it or if he realized that he should keep his mouth shut at the theatre, but he managed to do that for the first three months or so. But then he started wearing buttons on his jacket expressing support for Keegstra, Ernst Zundel (another individual convicted of hate speech; at least he was able to be deported since he wasn't a citizen), and "free speech."
One night I was just arriving at the theatre, toting a couple of large bags of props, and struggling through a late-April snowdrift. This guy was also just arriving, and said, "Keegstra would blame the Jews for this" (meaning the late-season snowstorm that dumped the snow I was having trouble with). I told him that I absolutely did not want to discuss Keegstra or the court case, and said that as far as I was concerned, late snowfalls in April are just things that happen some years. He started to protest, but I had to repeat that I really didn't want to hear about it.
Some people just can't help themselves. They may try, but it will slip out sooner or later.
Is it okay to have a discussion about whether it's okay to punch women who had an abortion? After all, some people still think abortion is murder, and from their perspective, such a discussion may make a lot of sense. More so than punching a Nazi even, because in their mind that person does not only think very inappropriate things, no, to them that person has literally murdered somebody.
I mean... really.
That thread would probably be open for about 10 minutes, and then closed purely on the basis that people do not agree with her world view.
We've previously had posters openly declare that giving and receiving abortions merits the death penalty. I don't recall any infractions being handed out for those discussions, although I'll grant I may be misremembering.
If that's the case, then great!
I guess my position looks a bit warped because I started with the moderator-joke and then got dragged into defending the notion that it's "not okay" when you mentioned that discussion about nazis/moderators are different in your opinion because CFC moderators are directly affected.
My actual position is that I'm very much for allowing these conversations. I was just surprised that that's actually okay with the moderators.
I'm not comfortable with any of these "punching" threads, whether real or hypothetical. And the moderator one isn't really a joke, because some of the staff here have been open about which city they live in. If a sufficiently disturbed person wanted to go through with this, how could the moderators be sure that they were safe?
The poster who kept posting his view that women who have abortions should be executed is no longer a forum member. He was permabanned a few years ago (before you joined). I was on staff during his time here (but not when the permaban happened), and yes, it disturbed me that he was allowed to keep posting that stuff. "It's his opinion" might be acceptable if it's hypothetical, but when it could reasonably apply to someone on this forum, it's definitely not acceptable, in my view.