Ohwell
Deity
What do you mean, likes you? If she talks to you, then she 'likes' you. If you mean if she's attracted to you, why dont you find out on your own instead of asking people on the internet?
How can I know if a girl likes me?
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Cognitive dissonance
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According to cognitive dissonance theory, there is a tendency for individuals to seek consistency among their cognitions (i.e., beliefs, opinions). When there is an inconsistency between attitudes or behaviors (dissonance), something must change to eliminate the dissonance. In the case of a discrepancy between attitudes and behavior, it is most likely that the attitude will change to accommodate the behavior.
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In practice, that means getting people into situations they may not be altogether sure of, then making them choose between changing behaviour or continuing on, as in your example Moony. And it works - isn't that terrible? My favourite was to offer something good, then make the girl wait. She either decides she really badly wants to wait for me (feels like "realises"), or, well, she doesn't!
marshal zhukov
good economist wannabe
There are no rules for this kind of thing, you just have to go with the flow, be yourself and learn to read body language
Damn...wish somebody told me that plan in July. Would have made things a lot better.
Sims2789
Fool me once...
but if she demands money than she probably doesn't like you, but it could still be fun
"if you can talk to her on the phone for about an hour and not have any silence where either of you can't think of what to say then you're in there"
Yeah, except for one time i knew this girl where we'd have like 2 hour long talks on the phone and then when i asked her out she wasn't interested. High school girls are crazy, the girls i know as friends seem to have a new boyfriend every 2 weeks.
Yeah, except for one time i knew this girl where we'd have like 2 hour long talks on the phone and then when i asked her out she wasn't interested. High school girls are crazy, the girls i know as friends seem to have a new boyfriend every 2 weeks.
Sarevok
Civ3 Scenario Creator
G*d Damn, thats even worse than the people I see everyday!
Sarevok
Civ3 Scenario Creator
Judging by these comments, I need to do something... :suicide:
ok, not really. What i need to do is slap myself... alot. If this stuff is true, I have wasted ALOT of my time and I should just go.
thing is I have a girl that does like me, its unmistakable and ive liked her as well. Catch is, my mortal enemy is one of her best freinds, so I cant talk to her all that often. The only real chance I get is before school and that is only if im lucky and get there at the right place and right time.
What the enemy did is unforgivable in my book until I get my vengeance. Thing is also, getting in a relationship with this girl that lasts and works (which is easy if I get over this other sh*t), that would be almost the perfect revenge to have. Lets just say my mortal enemy saw what was coming and wanted to stop it, and did one of the worst things one could do concerning the manipulation of trust.
What should I do in this situation?
ok, not really. What i need to do is slap myself... alot. If this stuff is true, I have wasted ALOT of my time and I should just go.
thing is I have a girl that does like me, its unmistakable and ive liked her as well. Catch is, my mortal enemy is one of her best freinds, so I cant talk to her all that often. The only real chance I get is before school and that is only if im lucky and get there at the right place and right time.
What the enemy did is unforgivable in my book until I get my vengeance. Thing is also, getting in a relationship with this girl that lasts and works (which is easy if I get over this other sh*t), that would be almost the perfect revenge to have. Lets just say my mortal enemy saw what was coming and wanted to stop it, and did one of the worst things one could do concerning the manipulation of trust.
What should I do in this situation?
SideshowBob
Ah, winter finally.
About talking:
Never ask questions that can be answered with only one word. If you ask questions that can't be answered with a yes or no or "I don't know" and yet she doesn't uphold the conversation then she isn't interested. Change subject or realize it's not meant to be. And further more, physical atraction and sex means less the farther you get in a serious relationship. If you want it to work you have to be able to talk and share interests.
And it's always better to ask someone out early and see where it leads if it leads somewhere, than to be head over heels in love for a long time without being able to make a move. It's the nowhere-going-longlasting-love that hurts more than being rejected.
Never ask questions that can be answered with only one word. If you ask questions that can't be answered with a yes or no or "I don't know" and yet she doesn't uphold the conversation then she isn't interested. Change subject or realize it's not meant to be. And further more, physical atraction and sex means less the farther you get in a serious relationship. If you want it to work you have to be able to talk and share interests.
And it's always better to ask someone out early and see where it leads if it leads somewhere, than to be head over heels in love for a long time without being able to make a move. It's the nowhere-going-longlasting-love that hurts more than being rejected.
thestonesfan
A Client of Ron Kuby
What he said. That's generally a great sign.
Seriously, if she likes you and wants to get her hooks in you, there isn't much you can do about it. So I wouldn't worry.
High school is a whole different ballgame. The rules that make sense don't really apply. Girls don't go for the guys that will be the best for them - just the guys that make them look the best. And those guys are usually jerks obsessed with their self-image. So in order to do well in high school if you are a decent, virtuous person, you have to compromise yourself, which no one should ever do. It's probably smart to just wait it out.
SanPellegrino
Wanderer
yes right, playing the clown usually backfires, but that means not you shouldn't be funny.
ottomankhadi
Chieftain
buy an inflatable girl ....
Sarevok
Civ3 Scenario Creator
True, but early isnt here any more. Are there any suggestions for a specific plan I should come up with?
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Sarevok just tell her you like her. If she likes you too then whats to loose?
Sarevok
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Yoda, Read what i wrote above to learny my situation. Post #50
Sarevok
Civ3 Scenario Creator
I see, there are 6 freinds to be exact. 1 Mortal enemy and 1 is a freind of the mortal enemy but likely wouldnt care. **** them, Ill have the other 4 as freinds which I already do have.
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I dont see how that changes the situation. You may not see her often, but when you do, tell her what you feel.
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