If those are your criteria, then you're dealing with tropes too ubiquitous to really say that the Gospel was derivative of anything. That being said, if you investigate the pagan texts discussing figures claimed to be the basis of Jesus Christ (Mithras and Horus being the most popular candidates), you'll find that the similarities are often drawn out intentionally or fabricated altogether. Additionally, there's no reason to think that the Gospel writers would have had any association with the Horic or Mithraic cults, especially since the Mithraic cult postdates Christianity.
Some people talk out of their asses and ignore the fact that wine was used sacramentally in Judaism as well.
Sure, some connections exist, but the ones you're drawing don't.