How do you get out of the "Friend Zone?"

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How do you get someone to look at you as someone more than friends?
 
The easiest way to get out of the "friend zone" is probably death.



Good luck! ;)
 
You cant, once youre in the friend zone, all bets are off.
 
Tell her, and ask her out.

Risk is that it may spoil the friendship. But then again, its probably better to find out now than just obsess for months / years.

At this stage, it's all or nothing then.

Anyway, good luck!
 
Get a girl friend ...blow her off for a while, "I have to do something with jane" when she calls and if she seems to get jelous and talk mess about her than you can go out sometime and put "the moves" on her if not that than



When she crys to you about some messed up relationship and sits on your lap/couch/bed etc be nice rub her back....be the rebound guy basicly


or

if someguy is being to agressive with her at a party or club/bar tell him to back off (in front of the girl) if he doesn't or gets loud with you grab him by the back of the neck and interlace both of your hands together with your fingers then pull his head down and give him a good knee right to the nose!
that should take him right down if he is around the same size as you

or
if you are bold enouf tell her you may become a buddist monk/catholic priest

or

you think you might be gay (but this is a risky one)



Other than that or suddenly becoming very rich you are in it for life


Thats all I got ;) Get another girl firend you will make her jelous while probably forgeting about her "in that way" anyway.... it's win win dude, if you can get with one of her friends it will help amplify your results ;) .
 
Tell her, and ask her out.

Risk is that it may spoil the friendship. But then again, its probably better to find out now than just obsess for months / years.

Unless him and her are allready good mates than it wouldn't be a good idea



....mates as in English style not Discovery channel .......I wish I had a Discovery channel mate that was also a good mate......I have a tendency to meet girls who are boring as all day and female friends that are great but not really the kind of girls I like-or the type of guy they like for that matter.
 
Get a girl friend ...blow her off for a while, "I have to do something with jane" when she calls and if she seems to get jelous and talk mess about her than you can go out sometime and put "the moves" on her if not that than

When she crys to you about some messed up relationship and sits on your lap/couch/bed etc be nice rub her back....be the rebound guy basicly

This might work. But in some cases. She might dropped the rebound and
A) back to old boyfriend
B) Another new boyfriend

or

if someguy is being to agressive with her at a party or club/bar tell him to back off (in front of the girl) if he doesn't or gets loud with you grab him by the back of the neck and interlace both of your hands together with your fingers then pull his head down and give him a good knee right to the nose!
that should take him right down if he is around the same size as you

long shot :D

or
if you are bold enouf tell her you may become a buddist monk/catholic priest

Girl: "go ahead"

or
you think you might be gay (but this is a risky one)

Girl: "i knew it"

Other than that or suddenly becoming very rich you are in it for life

Thats all I got ;) Get another girl firend you will make her jelous while probably forgeting about her "in that way" anyway.... it's win win dude, if you can get with one of her friends it will help amplify your results ;) .

i think this is the best solution.
live the life well, get rich, get prettier girlfriend. if she came back, date her and dump her the next day :D
 
This might work. But in some cases. She might dropped the rebound and
A) back to old boyfriend
B) Another new boyfriend



long shot :D



Girl: "go ahead"



Girl: "i knew it"



i think this is the best solution.
live the life well, get rich, get prettier girlfriend. if she came back, date her and dump her the next day :D
Yeah only one is actually really good idea, two are okay....the rest... well
I just wanted to give the poor guy every possible idea allthou I admit they are not all that great :lol:
 
Yeah only one is actually really good idea, two are okay....the rest... well
I just wanted to give the poor guy every possible idea allthou I admit they are not all that great :lol:

its a sad fact that we often cannot get what we desired... T_T :cry:
 
If she was interested in you, romantically, you wouldn't be in the friend zone to begin with, I don't think.

Ask her out (tell her how you feel) and whatever she answers, accept it.
 
Thats normaly the case.

Personaly, I would move onto a different girl if she places you on her "friends zone". It's highly impossible to try to jump ladders.

The end result will be landing into the pit of dispar.
 
I've got together with one of my friends, so ignore those who say 'don't bother'.

Basiclaly, you have to know if the attarction is mutual. If it's not, then thats whne you don't bother. If you don't know, then figure it from their reactions to my advice.

Basically, make it blatant you think they are attractive. Make lots of pyhsical contact. Arms round the waist is one way, maybe holding their hand whilst you walking is another. Make sure you don't offend them, if they don't like it then give up. Compliment their cloths and their looks etc.
 
Pffft, just tell her. What's the worst that could happen? She'll turn you down and your friendship will suffer, at least until you patch things up. Nothing you won't get over. If you really like them just take the risk.

In a similar situation recently, I more or less told myself what I just told you, but I was still hesitating a bit. Then I saw some other guy inching towards her on the dancefloor and I suddenly summoned up the courage to do it.

Face it, telling her is risky, but if you don't then she'll eventually hook up with someone else and it'll hurt more than telling her ever could have. Time's a wastin.
 
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