the kitchen is fine , though others might end up terribly bad . Am not accusing you of anything , projecting nothing , know nothing about whataboutism is - though ı have an impression it involves bringing up stuff to distract attention from things happening right now ...
also ... That ...
well , my mother had a little infection , with me definitely necessary to attend her for a day this week and as a result ı wasn't able to be out in the webcafe and my 960 by 600 pixels tablet does not really cover stuff , so that ı immediately forget what was on . How about me making to the webcafe on Monday , God Willing ?
I'm really really sorry about your mom. I hope she gets better. I'll get off your back.
Since you asked, whataboutism is a rhetorical thing some people do. It's not always intentional. But it's a bad defense. (RE: your mom, I'll leave you alone after explaining it. I want to help you out.)
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You're kind of on point as to what whataboutism is.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Whataboutism
"
Whataboutism, also known as
whataboutery, is a variant of the
tu quoque logical fallacy that attempts to discredit an opponent's position by charging them with
hypocrisy without directly refuting or disproving their argument."
So when discussing something, let's say that person 1 says "X is a problem", and person 2 says "What about Y?" If X and Y are causally connected, person 2 is being fair. If X and Y aren't, and Y is tangentially related to person 1's position, person 2 is doing a whataboutism.
So that's quite technical. More concretey, as an example of what whataboutism could look like, taking inspiration from Godwin's law:
German person: "John Doe is an evil person for killing someone."
American person: "Oh, yea? What about Hitler?"
Here the American person tries to defend John Doe (for some reason) by refering to Hitler, who is tangentially related to the German person. Note that this is pure deflection and its
only use in conversation is to distract from the fact of the matter that John Doe is a killer. It will
only muddle the conversation. Neither the German person or the American person will get out of the conversation having convinced each other, or having gotten smarter. It is irrelevant what Hitler did when the discussion at hand is John Doe, who is unrelated to Hitler, who did kill people, who is unmistakenly villanous (and yes, John Doe is just a character from a movie, Se7en. I have no idea why anyone would defend him here, I picked a movie character to have a less politically loaded example).
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Basically, when you talk about the Crusades and Sarkozy and stuff, you aren't convincing anyone, talking about elements unrelated to what we're talking about. I'm telling you this not because it's wasting our time, but it's kind of wasting yours. Usually, people will at best get bogged down talking about the Crusade and Sarkozy, and still here they won't actually be convinced of your argument. It's pure deflection.
At worst, people will just walk away from you.
Sometimes it works. But it's rare.
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I hope your mother gets better. Good luck.