Far be it from me to tell you how to run your game, but isn't this something that should be decided on a team-by-team basis, and not a poll of individuals?
Ideally, I'd like to hear the opinions (yes/no) from each of the five teams on the following settings:
- Huts
- Events
- Vassal States
- Barbarians: None, Normal, or Raging
- Tech Trading: Normal, No Tech Trading, No Tech Brokering
Those are the five key settings to decide upon. The best solution, IMO, would be to have each team cast their vote on each one. Majority rules, 3/5 teams or more.
But again, I'm just the map maker and not the game's organizer.