"People like you" (I'm assuming the 'who' typo = 'you'). Glad you know me so well. Do you have any idea of where I've lived? My family background? Relations? etc... no, you don't.I'm still baffled as to why people like who think they know so much about southern culture yet still get it wrong. Maybe if you weren't so uppity you'd get it. And since I'm an actual southerner using that word its not being used in your north/west racist way.
See, the problem is you just make these blanket assumptions and stereotypes rather than start from a standpoint of having a discussion.
Where in any of my posts on this topic have said anything specifically about southerners?
In spite of your stereotyping of me, I will tell you that as I thought about this more I came to agree w/ you to a point. That said, when I reflected more about my time in the presence of people who've used this word and the context therein, I agree that it had more to do w/ issues of class than race, per se. BUT, very often, those very things intersect very harshly and this can confuse things.
I will apologize for saying "blah blah blah", but, frankly, I said it because, I find your style of lumping all people into such broad and over-general categories to be insulting (to both of us). Even with in the "south" there are a lot of distinctions between who the real southerners are. That was something taught to me very clearly when I was living in Texas. I lived in Ft. Worth and it cracked me up how they talked about people from Dallas as not being true Texans, etc.. etc... I could go on, but I think you get the picture.