Kiss on First Date?

[IglooDame]

Household help?! No pageboys of mine actually ever work. Nor would they kiss a girl, especially on the first date.

I'd see no reason for them to be dating at all (ickyness levels notwithstanding), given their castrations.

 

[dgfred]

I would act like a gentleman. That is all you really need. Considering your age it would be better not to kiss on the first date and make her wait a bit and when you two are ready, give her, her last first kiss and make her cherish it.

The best plan is to 'poot' in front of her on the first date . That
way if she laughs and thinks it funny- she is the one for you.... if not just
move on to the next one . It worked for me and I am still married.

 

[Masquerouge]

I think the safest time for kissing is on the second date. After all, if there's a second date, you can know for sure that she kinda likes you...

 

[IglooDame]

I think the safest time for kissing is on the second date. After all, if there's a second date, you can know for sure that she kinda likes you...

Now there's a man that's put some thought into it!

My first dates have been not-really-mainstream, so I can't offer much in the way of experience here.

 

[mrtn]

I don't think I've kissed a girl on the first date. Hugs yes, kisses no.

 

[Neonanocyborgasm]

So, just seeing what people would do.

Okay, you just got done with a date (first date) with whoever you like. It's time to go home and you drop that person off at their house.

Would you give that person a kiss goodbye? I know it depends on what kind of kiss. So how bought a peck on the cheek or on the lips, that's it, nothing else.

What would you do?

Depends on how the date went. If you get a sense that you've hit it off, you should go for it. Otherwise, there's no point trying. Considering that women will make up their mind about whether they like a guy or not in the first 15 minutes (or less!) after they meet him, a date is certainly enough time to determine whether there's enough attraction. (Ideally, you shouldn't have to wait until the date is even over to go for it.)

I've often wondered if you could apply the 15 minute rule to dates. At the start of the date, set a stopwatch to 15 minutes. When the watch goes off, assess your situation. If it's going well, you already have it in the bag. If your situation is lukewarm or worse, you should probably pack it up, even after 15 minutes.

 

[Tycoon101]

No. Absolutely not. I refuse to kiss someone on a first date, unless she was a friend that I have been a best friend with for years.

 

[homeyg]

Never been on a date..

 

[truckingpete]

Never been on a date..

You know, there is more in the world then just CIV

 

[Eran of Arcadia]

You know, there is more in the world then just CIV

Yeah, there's also CFC.

I haven't asked a girl out since breaking up with my one and only ex-girlfriend more than a year ago. I know a few girls I could ask, in theory, except that I am kind of a coward.

 

[homeyg]

You know, there is more in the world then just CIV

I started to possibly see that that is true, but then I said screw it.

 

[Truronian]

I started to possibly see that that is true, but then I said screw it.

Yeah, RL is just a cunning tactic by the AI to make you screw up

 

[homeyg]

Yeah, RL is just a cunning tactic by the AI to make you screw up

If real life was easy (and I could actually get a gf or have some other good things happen to me), I would give up CIV in a heartbeat.

 

[Sidhe]

Yeah, there's also CFC.

I haven't asked a girl out since breaking up with my one and only ex-girlfriend more than a year ago. I know a few girls I could ask, in theory, except that I am kind of a coward.

me too, I'm wallflower when it comes to being forward with the ladies, I really should make the effort and sometimes I do, but I'm much happier when they show interest in me. Sad but true.

 

[GenMarshall]

I have said it one and I'll say it again. Its never a good idea to ask in a Gaming forum dating advice .

 

[Neonanocyborgasm]

It's been forty years since I went on a date. But when I was dating, a good night kiss, if only a chaste one, was de rigueur.

Now I am told that dating has moved beyond a mere kiss and is complicated by the "three date" rule: if she doesn't sleep with you by the third date, she's never going to and it's time to move on.

Old Man, nothing has changed. If you had gone on a date, 40 years ago, made your move, and gotten the cheek, what would you think? That the chick wasn't interested, so you should move on. It's the same thing today.

 

[Neonanocyborgasm]

Never engaged in such icky behaviour, and never will, so the answer is clearly in the negative. If they haven't been too girly, then I might show my approval by poking them with a stick, or leaving a dead mouse on their doorstep.

Are you gay?

 

[Low Tier Hero]

I was going to be shocked at the level of shut in, given if the question was even relavent this day in age; but CivGeneral basically summed it up for me =)

-An Idle Mind

 

[GenMarshall]

Are you gay?

Nope, Simon Darkshade is an asexual.

 

[Neonanocyborgasm]

I think the safest time for kissing is on the second date. After all, if there's a second date, you can know for sure that she kinda likes you...

Be careful. That's using logic, which is usually bound for failure in romantic endeavors.