Kiss on First Date?

Nanocyborgasm said:
Be careful. That's using logic, which is usually bound for failure in romantic endeavors. :)

Yeah, a second dtae can just as easily mean she's hungry and likes your choice in resturants ;).
 
If I get the signal, I kiss. If I don't, I don't. If I'm not sure weither she wants a kiss or not I kiss. It's just simple logic.
 
Nanocyborgasm said:
Are you gay?

Refer to the umpteen zillion comments on the matter previously made. Now, back to the soothing zithers and close harmonies of the pageboy choir as I put up my feet. :evil:
 
Drool4Res-pect said:
If I get the signal, I kiss. If I don't, I don't. If I'm not sure weither she wants a kiss or not I kiss. It's just simple logic.

I always just ask, signals are confusing sometimes, it's forward but if you word it right, and manage not to stumble through it, it always works, I guess I know when to ask too though :)

Simon Darkshade said:
Refer to the umpteen zillion comments on the matter previously made. Now, back to the soothing zithers and close harmonies of the pageboy choir as I put up my feet. :evil:

Yeah but are you though? ;):p
 
No, certainly not, and such activities should be harshly punished. Men and women are both icky, but particularly girls.
 
usarmy18 said:
How about sex on the first date?


depends how long its been.......

Seriously though, if you like the girl then it pays to respect her-after a date anyways. Some fella said clubbing thats different.
 
CivGeneral said:
I have said it one and I'll say it again. Its never a good idea to ask in a Gaming forum dating advice ;).

Au contraire, there is much that can be learned from negative examples.
 
The whole dating and asking a girl thing sounds strange to me. It doesn't work that way here.

As the dating concept doesn't exist here, it's difficult to answer the question. I have kissed girls to whom I never have spoken before. And sometimes it takes months before the first kiss.

Besides we give eachother a kiss on the cheek, even if it is the first time we meet. Between guys, kisses on the cheek only happens when they know eachother well and there is consent.
 
truckingpete said:
Ah well, we are all friends :) And yes you will probably have to say it again.


plus you can get some great advice by simply ignoring or doing the opposite of others advice :)
 
At 15 kissing is such a huge deal, so maybe betetr to 'let it happen' than to kinda go straight for a full blown snog:crazyeye:

At my age (21) if a girl didn't want to kiss on the first date I'd probably lose intrest, I like outgoing girls who aren't afraid to show some affection! In fact in the past i've always kissed a girl before going on a date with them:lol: But thats due to pulling in nightclubs, where flirting and then kissing as the courting ritual is standard, along with some grinding on the dance floor:mischief: :lol:
 
ComradeDavo said:
At 15 kissing is such a huge deal, so maybe betetr to 'let it happen' than to kinda go straight for a full blown snog:crazyeye:

At my age (21) if a girl didn't want to kiss on the first date I'd probably lose intrest, I like outgoing girls who aren't afraid to show some affection! In fact in the past i've always kissed a girl before going on a date with them:lol: But thats due to pulling in nightclubs, where flirting and then kissing as the courting ritual is standard, along with some grinding on the dance floor:mischief: :lol:


dunno why that got me chuckling-just havnt heard 'snog' for awhile, your so out of touch davo!


yer thats what you get for not going to see GNR-me on your back :p
 
A peck on the lips, if it went well. Actually, maybe better to do nothing lip-wise, I for one am a traditional kind of guy. Probably too much so for the general public ;)
 
homeyg said:
If real life was easy (and I could actually get a gf or have some other good things happen to me), I would give up CIV in a heartbeat.

Your problem is your attitude. This sentence belies a lack of confidence in yourself
 
I'll cross that bridge when I come to it -- and it's a loooong ways off.
 
homeyg said:
If real life was easy (and I could actually get a gf or have some other good things happen to me), I would give up CIV in a heartbeat.
Bah, just get her interested in civ instead of giving it up yourself. Worked for me.
 
I'm not at all against it in principle, though I doubt that I'd have the courage to do it myself.
 
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