Kiss on First Date?

[Rhymes]

So, just seeing what people would do.

Okay, you just got done with a date (first date) with whoever you like. It's time to go home and you drop that person off at their house.

Would you give that person a kiss goodbye? I know it depends on what kind of kiss. So how bought a peck on the cheek or on the lips, that's it, nothing else.

What would you do?

Second, i usually try to bring her back home instead of dropping her at her place. Or rather I have a date at my place, so if we drink a little I can offer her to sleep on the guest room, and by "guest" i mean "my".

 

[Narz]

If I liked the girl (and she liked me) I'd give her a kiss sure.

Second date - heavy petting, kissing all over (wherever she lets me), lots of squeezing, etc.

Third date - oral sex & intercourse (safety first) !

Assuming the chemestry was there and we felt a spirtual bond and all.

 

[BCLG100]

I kissed my current girlfriend on the first date, on the lips not a peck. Still it depends how the date goes/whether you've got the balls.

Anyone ever tried it the 'hitch' way? where you lean in 90% and she goes the other 10%.

Someone else said ask for a kiss, thats not really my way but if it works for you go for it? depends on the kind of girl what happens when you ask that, she might think it cute or she might just think you too timid.

 

[Sidhe]

Bedroom shenanigans would be favourite, but then I don't have the time to mess about these days j/k

Kids don't try this at home!

 

[Rambuchan]

Whoa! Talk about a promiscuous community of godless individuals! I wouldn't even look a girl in the eye until our silver wedding anniversary.



But seriously, what mattbrown and skadistic said.

 

[Narz]

Whoa! Talk about a promiscuous community of godless individuals! I wouldn't even look a girl in the eye until our silver wedding anniversary.

Wow, that's a long time to wait. Good thing you Indians get married off at like 12 or 13, you're already half way there.

 

[thetrooper]

At my age just a lousy kiss would be the equivalent of 'Goodbye have a nice life'.

 

[Sidhe]

At my age just a lousy kiss would be the equivalent of 'Goodbye have a nice life'.

Precisely, the last time I pulled in a pub, in 1462 I believe it was, I was playing tonsel hockey outside the pub a couple of hours later. If only she'd of actually rung the number I gave here I'd of possibly got more than that. Life is soooo unfair.

 

[MamboJoel]

Well, the whole concept of *dating* looks odd to me. Maybe it's cultural, but it's trully not the way it works here. The way you guys describe it, it looks very procedural (IMO, I'm 26).
I mean two individuals have agreed on a *date*, they spend the evening together, acting as a couple etc etc... Isn't the issue allready solved at that point ?

 

[Truronian]

I generally wake up before the kiss happens, so I do not know

 

[7ronin]

It's been forty years since I went on a date. But when I was dating, a good night kiss, if only a chaste one, was de rigueur.

Now I am told that dating has moved beyond a mere kiss and is complicated by the "three date" rule: if she doesn't sleep with you by the third date, she's never going to and it's time to move on.

 

[Rambuchan]

It's been forty years since I went on a date. But when I was dating, a good night kiss, if only a chaste one, was de rigueur.

Now I am told that dating has moved beyond a mere kiss and is complicated by the "three date" rule: if she doesn't sleep with you by the third date, she's never going to and it's time to move on.

De rigueur, still, in my book. Anyway, all those dumb rules are one reason why dates suck. About 90% of my relationships have come about outside of the contrived dating scenario.

Wow, that's a long time to wait. Good thing you Indians get married off at like 12 or 13, you're already half way there.

Good thing I'm an Indian that doesn't take that marrying off crap and neither does any of my family. Not all Indians do this ya know.

At my age just a lousy kiss would be the equivalent of 'Goodbye have a nice life'.

Ain't that the truth!

 

[Narz]

Good thing I'm an Indian that doesn't take that marrying off crap and neither does any of my family. Not all Indians do this ya know.

I know. T'was kidding. I didn't mean any offense.

 

[thetrooper]

@Rambunctious: The Truth, The Whole Truth, and Nothing But The Truth.

 

[Simon Darkshade]

Never engaged in such icky behaviour, and never will, so the answer is clearly in the negative. If they haven't been too girly, then I might show my approval by poking them with a stick, or leaving a dead mouse on their doorstep.

 

[Rambuchan]

Narz: No worries man. Just saying for clarity's sake.

trooper: Are you being a "dirty little *ahem*" again?

Simon: A dead mouse? Oh you puszy cat you!

 

[Grisu]

I was playing tonsel hockey outside the pub a couple of hours later.

I have never heard the term tonsel hockey, and I'm not sure if I want to know what it means

anyway, where I live a three-cheek-kiss is standard to say hello/goodby even for platonic friends, so I'd go for at least that, if she then turns her lips my way, all the better

but then, I'm out of this game anyway

edit: oh and FWIW, I find these date-rules utterly ridiculous as they can never take the full situation into account. I know that I'd be beating myself for years if I had listened to the three date rule and didn't date my gf more than 3 times

 

[Simon Darkshade]

Simon: A dead mouse? Oh you puszy cat you!

With fleas. With said fleas carrying yersinia pestis.

 

[downtown]

Damn. Either a bunch of rules changed and I didnt get the memo, or I am *really* old school. It has been a pretty long time since I've gone on a "first date" though

 

[Rambuchan]

With fleas. With said fleas carrying yersinia pestis.

I'm sure there are many female lurkers of this forum whose toes are curling and knees are going weak as they read your molten chocolate lyrics. I think we've all got a lot to learn from you.

Matt: What, you just move straight onto the second date first?