Thought experiment. There are certain absurdities which mathematicians take as granted. One is that the segment [0,1) has no endpoint at 1. The more correct statement is that [0,1) has no defined endpoint. It's there, but we don't have the language to talk about it.
So, can you prove that 0.999...is not an element of [0,1) without using 0.999... = 1?
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Firstly, can you define your notion of having no end point? Or having no defined endpoint? It seems vague what you are trying to point at mathematically. It is bold to say that the language isn't there. It
is there. ZFC is the language/backbone of most modern mathematics.
Secondly, the modern construction of real numbers relies on ZFC, either dedekind cuts or equivalence classes of Cauchy sequence. If you don't know what are those, look them up.
In fact modern mathematics define the field of real numbers by having some satisfactory properties, that first it contains the rationals as an ordered subfield and secondly, every set that is bounded above has a least upper bound. Equivalently, every Cauchy sequence is convergent. So in particular, if one refers the element 0.9999... repeating, it can be written as the limit as n goes to infinity sum of 9*10^-i for i = 1 to n, which is contained in the reals since it is a Cauchy sequence, and it is in fact 1.
The two construction mentioned above can be shown to be isomorphic (in other words, essentially the same) and any other field that satisfy the above two properties are necessarily isomorphic as fields.
Tldr: these are not firstly, absurdities. It's just that someone outside of math lack understanding and calls it absurdities. You know, akin to how anti vaxxers say vaccination is a sham. Secondly this assumptions are certainly not taken for granted, in fact it is the crystallisation of the work of many generations, to show that one can construct the field of real numbers from rationals and to show that they have certain desirable properties. And of course to prove 0.999... not equals to 1 doubters that 0.999... = 1, in our definition of real numbers.