I'm not sure if you missed this post among all the angrier ones, but I'd genuinely like to know more about left-wing extremist violence in Chile in the 1960s and 1970s. My biases are generally center-left, but I'll read literally any viewpoint.
Overall my impression is that the rate of left-wing terrorist/guerrilla activity in Chile was far lower than in Argentina and Uruguay at the same time, and that human rights abuses by Allende and his supporters were rare compared to those under Pinochet (although there must have been some, given what happened to your family). If this impression is wrong, or even if it is right, I'd like to see some sources that discuss it.
Do you have any links, or know of any books, or any other source which we might be able to read? Linking to sources tends to make this sort of debate more productive and less aggressive. A few people might even learn something.