it sounds like you want a god who has no love nor care about anything. This would be like saying i would want a spouse who doesn't care that I love her and make no demands for my time. Because I love my child I make demand on them for their benefit not because I need something from them.King Alexander said:I'll search to find another "god", MY "god", who doesn't care of worships and wants nothing in return because he doesn't need it.
God is very interested in improve human nature ,He gave his Son to save man. Your first point reveals why God won't force anyone to worship Him. Worship is an act of love and can't be force.A "god" who'd be interested to improve the human nature from kill each other for territory control/expansion/strategic sources capture.
So you believe it's God's fault because the greed of mankind, other are starving.A "god" who wouldn't allow people to die from starvation.
It amazing how mankind loves to cry God claim innocent lives when we are so quick to declare a unborn baby has no right to live and call it "PRO-CHOICE".A "god" who wouldn't claim that innocent people die because that's "god's will".
It sounds like (unless I missing something) what you really want is for God to judge everyone and make them do right while you can do as you please without God demanding anything from you. This is a double standred. Just like politics as you used , It a lot easyer to bash the president and cry againest his actions than to have real answers to the world's problems.