Fundamentalists are hard to talk to, but here's an honest stab.
J has uttered bad thoughts. And it was demanded that in order to be worth speaking with, or thinking positively of, that he speak good thoughts. He expressed good thoughts in a post that was "on the script" of "good thinking people." At which point, he gets a like, and then an admonishment to silence his honest admissions to his anonymous acquaintances due to their badness. His harmfulbad admissions even. Not because he might act harmfully, but because expressing them is harmful and gross. Which is what heresy is. I'm calling you, among other people, hurtful fundamentalists. We like to whine about how men hold it all in, and here we are. Being disgusting to one of them.
I think if you just stated how that made you feel without the judgement would be better.
Constant reminders are always acceptable if done in a constructive manner.
Unfortunately the best teachers are our wives. (at least most of the time anyway)
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