RANDOM RANTS XXXI: I hate my job

[Boundless]

It is, I find that the cycle's viscocity is so high that it barely moves at all.

OH that's really embarrassing, but I can't edit now, it's been noticed! Maaaaah!

 

[Mathalamus]

See this is the problem I face - can women and men just be friends? I thought so but it's proving wrong at the moment!

its definitely possible for some males to remain friends with females. i consider myself as your friend, or at least someone who you know online.

males usually cannot control love or infatuation. its quite difficult to deal with. so, don't take it too badly.

 

[Takhisis]

What's a viscous circle? a ring made of honey?

 

[Eat_Up_Martha]

Men and women can be friends, but there's almost always a sexual component to the relationship that, if not addressed correctly, can certainly mess things up.

 

[Yared]

Well, if you must know, I've had 3 different boys who are very close friends declare their love for me after 3 years of friendship, and I feel a little flat because it now feels as though our friendships were a little... er... false.

Ahh. How unfortunate :/ Most guys just don't know that once they get friendzoned, their chances are almost nulled. Oh well. I don't think you should think of them as false though. It's not like they're manipulative players who just faked the friendship I think you should be flattered that they found you to be attractive. Maybe set them up with your friends

And as for the boy I like/love/whatever you want to call it, my feelings are definitely stronger than his.

The ironic thing (that you might not have realised) is that the fact that he is so hard to get most likely adds to your attraction for him. Humans want what they don't have.


Link to video.

Basically boys are rubbish because the ones you like don't like you, and the ones that do, you don't like. Viscous cycle. But as Mr Sinatra says, that's life.

C'est la vie. The only thing you can do is to further your knowledge about it so you know why it happens. Maybe even use it to your advantage to keep that special boy you like

(And yes, I realise that this almost completely factual post might not be what you to read because you're a woman and when you're sad you want emotional support and not logical, which is what men usually provide, but I couldn't resist myself.)

 

[aimeeandbeatles]

My bad leg is spasming on me again.

 

[PlutonianEmpire]

I forgot my meds again. Sitting 20 miles away on a nightstand somewhere in a Republicrap town that deserves to be nuked. Not that where I am right now is any better.

 

[Mathalamus]

I forgot my meds again. Sitting 20 miles away on a nightstand somewhere in a Republicrap town that deserves to be nuked. Not that where I am right now is any better.

take your meds, and never get it out of your house.

 

[Joecoolyo]

See this is the problem I face - can women and men just be friends? I thought so but it's proving wrong at the moment!

That's the thing, as SuperJay said, boys won't be your friends, they think too much in the black and white.

Men on the other hand...

 

[Takhisis]

Joe you're barely seventeen. You're still underage!

 

[SuperJay]

He has a beard, I'm gonna vouch for him entering the halls of manhood early.

 

[Joecoolyo]

He has a beard, I'm gonna vouch for him entering the halls of manhood early.

This man knows what I'm talking about!

 

[Takhisis]

Hmmmm… no, you're not a man, MOST DEFINITELY after this. Blame Your Mom.

 

[Joecoolyo]

True men can shy away from awkward conversation!

 

[azzaman333]

Well, if you must know, I've had 3 different boys who are very close friends declare their love for me after 3 years of friendship, and I feel a little flat because it now feels as though our friendships were a little... er... false.

It doesn't make the friendships any less real, just that they were probably hoping to get more out of it than you.

 

[Boundless]

It doesn't make the friendships any less real, just that they were probably hoping to get more out of it than you.

I hope so . Time is a healer and all that!

 

[Mathalamus]

I hope so . Time is a healer and all that!

time does heal, but to me, its far to slow in some cases, prolonging the hurt.

 

[GenMarshall]

I hate personality tests that are on online applications. It's a sure way for freaking employers to reject me outright .

 

[Heretic_Cata]

People are honest on those tests ? I thought it was a "What answers would my employer like to see" kinda test.

 

[GenMarshall]

People are honest on those tests ? I thought it was a "What answers would my employer like to see" kinda test.

I tend to answer honestly. Apparently being honest does not exist in this world.

I think I am going to have to get a cheat sheet for these stupid personality tests.