I just calculated our approximate development using peace way. Very nice way without deadlocks. Of course I don't know yet about other civ so I skip it.
The Science way is Writing(12), Mysticism(7), Meditation(9), Priesthood(5), Code of Laws(~25), Mining(~3), Masonry(~3), Bronze Working(~4), Mathematics(~9)...
Thebes produces Warrior(7), Settler(15), Library(~23), Settler(13), Worker(7), Worker(6),Pyramids(~10) with 3 chops under Mathematics and Bureaucracy up to 112 hammers.
Second City on SE from Horse produces Warrior(7), 1 turn of Barracks then Oracle(29), Worker (6), Barracks(?), then Chariots.
Third city on the coast SE,SE,E from Capital (?)
Worker 1 Build Pasture then 3-d Cottage, Road between rivers then Pasture on north Cow, Pasture on Horse, Pasture on NE Cow, Road on Horse, Cottage near Second city then Cottage between Capital and 3-d city then go to Stone with road. Next 2 Workers from Capital helps on Stone then build Mine on Plain Hill then chop.
Oracle will be ready 4-5 turns later then CoL.