Thanx for those replies, i'm glad you take it positively.
Ok, i am typing this while i am playing:
First i am getting rid of the clowns.
I increase the lux slider from 10 to 20%, 2 clowns are still needed though, but they can be taxmen/scientists. I started at -6gpt and now i am still at -6pgt without looking carefully where to put them to work yet.
If i increase it to 30%, i go to -19 gpt. 13 gpt for 2 jobs is slightly too expensive now. Only slightly though, if gold was in abundance, i maybe would pay that price. That is how important it is to have your people working and not be clowns. (4-5 gpt per job i usually pay, 6-7 only if i have gold in abundance)
I should decide who to go to war with, we are militairy superior to everyone, so all options seem to be open. Attacking the Greeks is interesting if i take the luxury from them, but don't have any techs to pay us for peace. I could attack england and america, but they only have some small towns near us and their main lands are too far away. They wont pay us much for peace if we only take these small towns. Also do i want to wait until the towns have the size or culture so that i will take them rather than destroy them.
I will probably not attack these guys for now since i am not planning to hurt my reputation in any way. attacking them now for these small villages would mean we can't go to war with them for 20 turns.
My plan is to attack france, they have some very good cities within our reach, and they are build on flat ground so they wont get a defence bonus. Also does france have the techs we want for peace. I am planning to take Chartres and Paris, maybe more if needed to make them pay techs. The distance however means it will be about 10 turns before we have those cities (and our golden age). Getting techs for peace will take even longer since they won't talk to use the first few turns after we started the war. Also would it not suprise me if we need to take a 3th city to make them pay well.
This together leads me to the following decisions:
-I was thinking about stopping research for now on engineering, i will not do so however since maybe we can have it researched by the time we negotiate peace with france.
-I will Attack greece right now for the luxuries they have. I will at least take Corinth for the silks, after that i may also go for the incense near sparta, but with their strong defenders, i am not really counting on that.
This will give us GA within a few turns and the luxury will also help us a lot.
So i start moving 4 legions and an archer from lugdunum towards Corinth, i move trough the forests since the units only have 1 move anyway, and the forests provides them defence bonus. I make sure i have no units inside their territory before declaring war, our reputation must remain spotless.
Most other units are moving northwards to attack france. They will take between 6 and 9 turns to reach the target cities. Only a few are left behind for defence (we can upgrade warriors in emergency)
I also disband a few warriors, they provide little power and we simply dont have the gold to pay their upkeep. Since i don't want our opponents to think we are weak, i won't disband too many of them though. I keep some so we can upgrade them in case of emergency.
Now is time to change the city productions.
I notice another small mistake now i want to point out. This is really a detail, but every detail does count. Ravenna is building a legion while it does not have a barracks. Hispalis is building a catapult while it DOES have a barracks. Obviously, this is the wrong way around since catapults do not benefit from being produced with a barracks. We are now building a weak legion, and the barracks is being wasted while building a catapult. Here it also counts, having things but not using them is wasting resources. It is best to dedicate each of your cities task, usually the tasks are settler/worker factory, unit factory and non hitpoints unit factory for me. You could have science or culture cities, but that does not fit in my play style, on high difficulties, science is hopeless and culture i simply don't like (besides that it is also hopeless trying to beat an AI on culture on higher difficulties).
Ok, on with the productions: I set some cities with good surplus that do not yet have more than 10 shields ready to workers, 6 workers are now in production (deu in 1,1,1,2,4,10 turns), 3 marketplaces, 1 harbor, and a bunch of granaries.
This was preturns, i will see if i should move some laborers to work other tiles, but now i will first make myself something to eat
Before going to make food, i decided to take a little look at where the wonders are located. I just notice the Library is owned by the french and is located in Paris. So learn from my mistakes now, and be sure to look at where the wonders are before making plans

no need to make pretty deals in peace nogatiations, we will have the GL anyway ! So the plans are not changed by that, i wanted to take paris anyway. I will however now set science to 0 and have some cash coming in. This is nice
