You can certain dispute whether or not these attitudes we're alleging constitute "a culture". I'm not married to the concept; I tend to think that human beings in hierarchical society are given many opportunities to treat each other as garbage, and provide with ways to rationalise that behaviour, and that gender is one of several dimensions. I'm sure that many black men could tell their own stories of reduced bodily autonomy during encounters with the police, for example; I would not be the first to search that stop-and-search policies are comparable to sexual assault as acts of coerced and invasive contact.
But, I don't think it follows that because this doesn't constitute "a culture", it's just a lot of errors and loopholes and lapses of judgement, occurring more or less by accident. If that were the case, we'd expect the system to err in the opposite direction about as often, which doesn't seem to be the case. I think it's hard to argue that there isn't some underlying, if not approval of sexual violence, then a disinclination to recognise sexual violence, an anxiety about identifying violent sexual behaviour in those terms. It can be
in the culture, without being
a culture, if that makes sense.
For sure, although I'll point out that the reason this is now considered generally abhorrent is because feminists have spent decades beating it into our skulls. But, again, the fact that we can point to explicit taboos is not strong evidence of a society which is consistently hostile to sexual assault. There is a long way between explicitly affirming a desire for sex and being unconscious, and
Part of the problem we're running into, I think, is thinking of this narrowly in terms of criminal justice. There's a large swathe of sexual violent behaviour which is not prosecutable in any practical way, just as there's a large swathe of other kinds of violent behaviour which is not prosecutable. While I can appreciate the romance of a song titled
"The Severed Genitals of Every Rapist Hang Bleeding From These Trees", I readly admit that it's not an appropriate response to most instances of sexual violence. This is all as much a question about treating other people decently, of empowering people who may be victimised to force others to treat them decently, as it is about sending people to prison.
Speaking of prison: male-on-male sexual violence in prisons is frequently treated as a joke, and not infrequently cited as an appropriate and just part of a convicted person's punishment. So, if you want to think about "rape culture" in a way that doesn't invoke the spectre of the Feminist Agenda, about how bodily autonomy becomes degraded and sexually violent behaviour becomes excused, that's really not the worst place to start. As I mention above, gender is only one dimension of the various horrible ways that humans in hierarchical societies abuse each other.