BvBPL
Pour Decision Maker
That's why I suggested "Do you want to see a movie? Just the two of us?"
That seems like a strong signal.
That seems like a strong signal.
I distinctly remember talking to college women confused, thinking they were seeing a movie as friends only to find the guy thought it was a date.
Yeah, it's not so much what you ask to do and more how you ask it:
I've had lovers I wasn't friends with.
A splash of aftershave and insisting on paying for her ticket should take care of that mostly still these days, right?
A splash of aftershave and insisting on paying for her ticket should take care of that mostly still these days, right?
insisting on paying for her [ticket]
Paying for stuff is a bit of a tough thing these days.
It's even better if you make it personal:
"Well I know you LOVE y and I know they have y1 nearby so would you like to come do that?"
It makes sense for me that the person who did the asking out also does the paying. Or at least would attempt to pay for everything once the bill comes.
You are "taking someone out" and treating them to a night out. It's on you.
Having said that, it does make sense that some women might find that too old fashioned. Or men. Or whoever.
A longwinded explanation of why you should interject yourself into her domain and then a gift of flowers? It's so sticky and overbearing it just might work.Would asking be appropriate? Like, after the dinner you say, "Look, I'd like this one to be on me, it will make me feel right, but I definitely wouldn't like you to be offended by that or something. So, you don't mind if I pay for us both?"
In case with a ticket, you just come up with two tickets and go with something like, "Hey, I've got a spare ticket, and I'd love you to come with me, what do you say?"
Also, is it customary to present a girl you like with flower(s)? Okay, if she's green, then potted flower(s)?
since you asked ;DYeah, paying for chicks is lose-lose. If she doesn't sleep with you you feel dumb. If she does sleep with you you set the president (sp) that you're gonna pay for stuff in the future.
If you're into the girl you want that which brings you together, however together means to you. Sex is the most connective activity. And if you aren't down with the get down, girl's gonna give up giving it up: no more dates.Ah, well, perhaps there is the divide. I was never offering sex on my dates. If you're expecting it as remuneration or in order to classify things as a success, that skews everything.
If you're into the girl you want that which brings you together, however together means to you. Sex is the most connective activity. And if you aren't down with the get down, girl's gonna give up giving it up: no more dates.
I think lifting should be done with primary muscles or you build a warped form. I think relationships in which you can and do everything outside of the relationship except sex are formed around sex. Sex is about the rawest, most honest state, showing you how vulnerable and real you are being with each other. Do you inspire each other or tire each other? Is sex contrived and full of orgasm-lies or in your arms do each doth you die? Can you laugh and can you cry? Why oh w....Sex is a connective activity. The most isn't right. Different activities are more in different ways. I always figured if you need to crutch on sex early then the non-sex base is too weak to be very interesting. Ultimately, I found a mate that meets my criteria. There certainly aren't any deficits in interest or drive in that specific area, though, contrary to Narz's estimation.