The Soviet Union was all that, and you may dislike it. But when people criticize it they usually mean the stuff it did that did not happen in the West, at least to a comparable extent, like censorship, unelected government, brutal suppression of dissent, etc.Why do you think I am fond of the Soviet Union at the first place? I just find a lot of critique to be ridiculous just as Soviet newspapers which were writing in 80's how Americans are "lynching the Negroes". Especially this critique is ridiculous when it comes from people who are actually pushing their countries to destination where Soviet Union once was. USSR of 60s-70s was very similar to what modern Europe and USA are striving to. It had:
1) Heavily equalized society with main housing, education, medicine necessities and average income guaranteed almost for everyone, with little difference between an average man and higher-ups. Difference between Soviet "elites" and average Soviet citizen was miniscule comparing to difference between average modern Russian and oligarch.
2) Polite correctness
3) Multiculturalist policies
4) Severe degradation of culture and elites
But I am not particularly fond of Soviet Union. It was very leftist state. If I had to claim "fondness" of some period of Russian history, I would say I am fond of Imperial Russia.
Simply by pretending that the USSR from the 60's - 70's was essentially the same as modern US or Europe shows a degree of apologism which I can only attribute to fondness.
The problem with all Leftist ideologies is that they are based on egalitarianism. And the idea of egalitarianism leads to necessity of violence because people are unequal and to maintain equality among unequals one needs to apply force - more equality needs more force. The problem is that all Leftist movement are based on views which have little in common with reality which they still try to push. Left is egalitarian and it means it is violent - not necessarily physically but ideologically. The force is not necessary is applied all at once. Look at the modern West. It is becoming progressively more Left but slow enough to increase its pressing by little. Still, it is already quite totalitarian.
Yes, radical egalitarianism always requires violence - no question there. From Rousseau to Lenin to Marcuse, the history of radical egalitarianism is a history of apology of murder (and actual murder, on a colossal scale).
But no, the West is not "quite totalitarian" in any way.