I could rewrite your post talking about communism. we all know that communism leads to totalitarian dictatorships. (this is an axiom and really not up for discussion, i mean seriously....so why do communists on one hand talk about freedom, on the other favour such a system of extreme unfreedom?
stupidity or moral bankruptcy? But communists don't think their policies lead to unfreedom and totalitarianism. Communists aren't evil people who love dictatorship.
You need to recognize that your intellectual enemies are not self serving, opposed to freedom or consider themselves evil and revel in it. Anarcho capitalists consider themselves promoters of freedom and that their policies will improve the lives of most members of society, rich and poor.
Anarcho Capitalists view the world differently. The generally see taxation as theft, see the government as extremely inefficient in anything it does , don't care about economic equality as much as other political ideologies(they still care about it a little bit though) and see government as creating more monopoly power than it reduces . If you believed that you would probably be an anarcho capitalist too.