So they recently carried out polls on reddit to attempt to find out the demographics of the Incel subreddit there. Surprisingly, only 60% are white, the remaining mostly Indian and other Asians like me.
The significant reason for increasing number of Asian Incels is literally this video here:
But wait what? That's only one video and one individual woman right?
Nope, try reading this:
https://www.huffingtonpost.co.uk/entry/asian-men-dating_us_5b0ed83de4b0568a8810e2d0
From my own personal experience of (unsuccessfully) trying online dating, the top replies I would get out of the few people that would bother replying were:
1) Not into Asians
2) You look like a terrorist
3) You look like a sex offender / rapist / pedophile
And thats with a full 100% rejection rate not from women, but gay men.
It is an absolute clear fact that men don't have an easy time with dating today unless they are at least an 8/10 Caucasian, or can pass as attractive Caucasians.
Also on the point of this thread and coming back to Incels, to clear up a few ignorant misconceptions:
1) Incels don't believe they are automatically entitled to sex, this is repeated BS from people who havnt even read anything from actual Incels. One of the main terms they use in this regards is 'looksmatch' - they rightfully expect to be entitled to be with a person of equal physical status.
However, they also state, and this is provable from data pulled from dating websites, that the top 80% of women are only interested in dating the top 20% of men. This leaves the bottom 80% of men (under 6/10 white men, under 8/10 black men, and literally 100% of Asians) to compete for just the 20% of women that will be willing to date them. Also from my personal experience on gay dating websites as well as many conversions with the people that would talk to me on them, it is easy to assume that 100% of gay men of colour will have zero chance on online dating. Even other people of colour will generally not respond because gay minorities are stemmed full of internalized racism mostly due to the excessive homophobia and inequality they faced while growing up, and I admittedly put myself in that group and am already seeing a psychiatrist regularly for this.
In my personal situation I am going to moving into my first house soon which is conveniently built next to a rugby stadium with an incentive for people moving onto this site for a reduced membership fee (I assume they will have a gym I can use, if not I will find one). I am also 100% decided on starting skin lightening and hair bleaching products, plus saving up enough money for laser treatment to turn my eyes blue (yes this exists), and then even more permanent facial reconstruction surgery as I literally have nothing to lose anymore. Now onto part 2:
2) Another misconception about Incels is that they are unwilling to change anything or improve themselves. Just 5 minutes of reading into any Incel community proves this false from looking at the two main terms of Incel culture:
A) Incel - Involuntary celibate
B) Volcel - Voluntary celibate
You will find right away that anyone in these communities that doesn't yet do anything to improve themselves, and refuse to do so are branded Volcel. To be an Incel, you have to be actively losing weight if you're fat. Going to the gym if you have a crap face to 'gym-max' into a 'gymcel' (maxed physical body with crap face).
Next comes, as I mentioned at the end of part 1 above sorting out the face. Dental implants for fixing the jaw. Rhinoplasty for fixing the nose. Anything else possible such as skin and hair lightening as I will be trying, there are countless threads giving advice and recommending these things all over the Incel community on reddit for anyone that can afford them.
To literally still claim that Incels are doing nothing to improve themselves is pure BS, I see numerous threads daily about these people hitting the gym, posting their improvement pictures, asking to rate their before and after changes, asking for help with facial improvement, I was told right away when I posted my pics I need to fix my beard, I need to lose weight, I need to take better pics, I am obviously a Volcel because I am not 'looksmaxing' etc etc. This is a community focused on nothing but pushing self improvement to the extreme, the term used for this in the community being 'looksmaxing' (I.E maxing your looks / body to the best that they can be).
So whatever, I assume most of you will still ignore this and continue bashing on the lowest status men in society because you have nothing better to do, and virgin shaming is amazing fun to you.
The significant reason for increasing number of Asian Incels is literally this video here:
But wait what? That's only one video and one individual woman right?
Nope, try reading this:
https://www.huffingtonpost.co.uk/entry/asian-men-dating_us_5b0ed83de4b0568a8810e2d0
'Even male models can’t catch a break on dating apps. Model and fitness coach Kevin Kreider, a Korean-American adopted by Irish-German parents, was so perturbed by his experiences on Tinder, he stopped using the app.
“It started to hurt my self-esteem because I know I’m a good-looking guy but I wasn’t getting any responses, so then I lowered my standards and lowered them again, until I finally got some interest,” he told HuffPost. “I realized how screwed up this was, especially when other white guys had no problem lining up dates and the girls were good-looking and educated.”
From my own personal experience of (unsuccessfully) trying online dating, the top replies I would get out of the few people that would bother replying were:
1) Not into Asians
2) You look like a terrorist
3) You look like a sex offender / rapist / pedophile
And thats with a full 100% rejection rate not from women, but gay men.
It is an absolute clear fact that men don't have an easy time with dating today unless they are at least an 8/10 Caucasian, or can pass as attractive Caucasians.
Also on the point of this thread and coming back to Incels, to clear up a few ignorant misconceptions:
1) Incels don't believe they are automatically entitled to sex, this is repeated BS from people who havnt even read anything from actual Incels. One of the main terms they use in this regards is 'looksmatch' - they rightfully expect to be entitled to be with a person of equal physical status.
However, they also state, and this is provable from data pulled from dating websites, that the top 80% of women are only interested in dating the top 20% of men. This leaves the bottom 80% of men (under 6/10 white men, under 8/10 black men, and literally 100% of Asians) to compete for just the 20% of women that will be willing to date them. Also from my personal experience on gay dating websites as well as many conversions with the people that would talk to me on them, it is easy to assume that 100% of gay men of colour will have zero chance on online dating. Even other people of colour will generally not respond because gay minorities are stemmed full of internalized racism mostly due to the excessive homophobia and inequality they faced while growing up, and I admittedly put myself in that group and am already seeing a psychiatrist regularly for this.
In my personal situation I am going to moving into my first house soon which is conveniently built next to a rugby stadium with an incentive for people moving onto this site for a reduced membership fee (I assume they will have a gym I can use, if not I will find one). I am also 100% decided on starting skin lightening and hair bleaching products, plus saving up enough money for laser treatment to turn my eyes blue (yes this exists), and then even more permanent facial reconstruction surgery as I literally have nothing to lose anymore. Now onto part 2:
2) Another misconception about Incels is that they are unwilling to change anything or improve themselves. Just 5 minutes of reading into any Incel community proves this false from looking at the two main terms of Incel culture:
A) Incel - Involuntary celibate
B) Volcel - Voluntary celibate
You will find right away that anyone in these communities that doesn't yet do anything to improve themselves, and refuse to do so are branded Volcel. To be an Incel, you have to be actively losing weight if you're fat. Going to the gym if you have a crap face to 'gym-max' into a 'gymcel' (maxed physical body with crap face).
Next comes, as I mentioned at the end of part 1 above sorting out the face. Dental implants for fixing the jaw. Rhinoplasty for fixing the nose. Anything else possible such as skin and hair lightening as I will be trying, there are countless threads giving advice and recommending these things all over the Incel community on reddit for anyone that can afford them.
To literally still claim that Incels are doing nothing to improve themselves is pure BS, I see numerous threads daily about these people hitting the gym, posting their improvement pictures, asking to rate their before and after changes, asking for help with facial improvement, I was told right away when I posted my pics I need to fix my beard, I need to lose weight, I need to take better pics, I am obviously a Volcel because I am not 'looksmaxing' etc etc. This is a community focused on nothing but pushing self improvement to the extreme, the term used for this in the community being 'looksmaxing' (I.E maxing your looks / body to the best that they can be).
So whatever, I assume most of you will still ignore this and continue bashing on the lowest status men in society because you have nothing better to do, and virgin shaming is amazing fun to you.
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