No ultimately it's letting kids decide things for themselves.
I remember being a kid and a teenager.
None of us were really qualified to determine what's best for us. Espicially being a teenager.
I don't think any court anywhere is going to rule that a child can over rule their parents.
Oh, any court anywhere, is that so?
Well, I can't speak for everywhere, but as it can be reasonably established that Québec is in fact, somewhere, and as I am somewhat versed in its legal system, let us test the claim
Now caveat, it has been some years since I got my law degree, and while I remain a member in good standing of the Quebec bar I am not in fact currently practicing, and what I say below should not be taken as formal legal advice (I'm legally required to say that part, since I'm not currently practicing).
But still, let us examine what the laws of *some*where say on this topic. I turn to my old friend, the Code Civil du Québec, which among very many topics regulates matters of bodily autonomy and healthcare (it is, in fact, essentially the first thing the second topic in the entire book, and the first in-depth section, coming up immediately after the general observations on fundamental rights.).
Well, let us begin with section 14:
Consent to care required by the state of health of a minor is given by the person having parental authority or by his tutor.
Well, that seems fairly clear...but what's that two sections above, in the section dealing with the duties of a person giving consent on the behalf of another?
A person who gives his consent to or refuses care for another person is bound to act in the sole interest of that person, complying, as far as possible, with any wishes the latter may have expressed.
Oh. Would you look at that. It seems parents have strict legal obligations when it comes to giving consent for their child...including considering any wish the child may express as a significant factor. AND not considering any factors that is not strictly the interest of the child.
But wait. If parents have limitations in how they can exercise consent, that would almost have to imply some control mechanism, wouldn't it? A way to make sure that parents failing to consider what they're obliged to, or considering things they have no right to, are made to follow the law...Or, say, if they try to deny consent without actually giving a reason for it...
Quoth section 16:
The authorization of the court is necessary where the person who may give consent to care required by the state of health of a minor or a person of full age who is incapable of giving his consent is prevented from doing so or, without justification, refuses to do so
Well, would you look at that. If the person who has authority to give consent refuses it without giving a (legally valid) justification, the court is specifically, by law, empowered to give that consent instead. Funny.
Oh, and just for the kicker fun? Here's the
second paragraph of (appropriately numbered) Section 14...
A minor 14 years of age or over, however, may give his consent alone to such care. If his state requires that he remain in a health or social services establishment for over 12 hours, the person having parental authority or tutor shall be informed of that fact.
Oh. Oh my. Would you look at that. Fourteen and up, parental consent can die in a fire if the care is in response to a healthcare need. And as "such care" includes such things as abortion, it's a pretty safe bet that it does also include puberty blockers due to gender dysphoria.
And what if the care is somehow not deemed requirered by the state of health? Well...
A minor 14 years of age or over may give his consent alone to care not required by the state of his health; however, the consent of the person having parental authority or of the tutor is required if the care entails a serious risk for the health of the minor and may cause him grave and permanent effects.
Oh, nope, parental consent *still* dies in a fire unless there is a serious risk for the health of the minor AND the effects are grave and permanent.
And if they are? Well, we go right back in fact to that first part, about parents only being allowed take the interest of the child and the child's wishes into account, and the authority on whether a parent's refusal of consent is acceptable being...ah, yes. The courts.
Well, I suppose you could make the case that the courts may not be willing to apply the law as written in this case, but...funny thing about a written civil code like that is that courts can only ignore it if it's unconstitutional, and precedent is very, very clear on that. So the courts...really do have to exercise their power according to the law on that case. And the law spells out very clearly situation where the parent's refusal of consent should be overruled by the courts, so...