I really do want to help resolve the conflict between male sexuality and female inclusion. But you cannot make natural and innate parts of people's sexualities go away. Shaming normal sexuality, saying it's bad, making it into an Albatross for men (especially young men) to carry around their necks is a non-starter. It will not work and it accomplishes nothing besides making people ashamed and miserable about who they are, their hormones, and their needs. Christianity has been trying for millennia to shame and pray away sexual things it deemed verboten. It never worked. Gays and naughty thoughts and stolen glances have always existed, no matter how hard Christians tried to root them out. But frankly, what I'm seeing here is more extreme than what I'd ever expect to hear from my grandma, a 77 year-old Evangelical Christian who's extremely squeamish about sexuality.
Moreover, this whole idea that visual stimulation by merely looking upon the female likeness is tantamount to dehumanization, to objectification of the singular woman in particular or all women in general, is flat out not how it works. It's just not. Finding women visually attractive, looking upon them, in no way inherently demeans them or denies them rights or equality. And most men do not find objects very attractive anyway. Men are not typically interested in verisimilitudinous sex dolls. Personality, humor, coolness, accomplishments, values, and so on are attractive. Calendars are totally compatible with this. It's just eye candy. That's all it is. Plain and simple. So at the end of the day, this idea that guys appeasing their desire for visual stimulation must objectify women and makes men seek human sex dolls is pseudo-psychological nonsense.
Ultimately, this whole thing is so deeply misguided. It proposes an unworkable and profoundly harmful solution to a completely misunderstood problem.
Its funny. Women have to hide breast feeding and menustation, completely natural parts of their lives because men find them icky.
They mutilate their bodies, starve themselves, have unnecessary cosmetic procedures all to please men but suggest to men that perhaps they shouldn't force what they want on women in every area of their lives and we're suppressing your freedom.