I get it! Are we arguing about the idea that white people got spoils off of black people and thus historically 'owe' them something? Because I'm not. Not at all.
I'm talking about how white people have a running historical advantage over black people because for generations (a) white people had the power and (b) are racist enough that black people have an historical disadvantage that's become endemic.
That sounds an awful lot like what you're arguing - if there's a difference, could you clearly state it for me?
Right, but the wrongs haven't been corrected. And serious efforts to correct those wrongs are still being culturally opposed. And racism is still causing damages, because we won't stop.
Then correct those specific wrongs - go after companies that hire less qualified whites over more qualified blacks. But creating a whole system based on giving blacks stuff because they're black is no better. It's just as bad.
Yeah, I think here's the disconnect.
You have wealth that your black peer does not, because your (hardworking and loving) parents have better incomes and better jobs than their black peers do. Why do they have better jobs? Because we're racist.
I am not racist, nor are my parents, not are most of the people around me. If you want to call yourself and your friends and your family racist, then that's your affair - but it's insulting for you to me and mine in such a presumptive way.
See, you've just presented a nice & viable solution. You're young, so one wonders why such a solution hasn't been implemented already. Heck, on the face of it, it looks to be more financially viable (i.e., cost effective) than AA.
How easy would it be for someone to work around this effort, though? If I (as an employer) knew that I'd get stung if I didn't 'call back' people with ethnic names, I'd just make sure to call a few of them each hiring cycle. And that's not even being racist. It's just CYA on my part.
But the racist can weed them out when they don't show up for the interview.
If they don't show up for the interview, then why do they deserve the job?

I don't expect to get a job if I won't show up for an interview, why should anyone else? If I were an employer, I wouldn't hire someone too lazy to come to an interview. I wouldn't care if they were white or black; if you don't show up, you don't get a job.
The reason why I don't comment on it is because I already have. I support programs designed to get people out of poverty. I harp on it most opportunities I get. AA is just one facet. There are dozens of things that need to be done.
AA is an unfair and racist system which could be better replaced by a system that actually tries to fix poverty and inequality - instead of punishing white people for daring to be richer than black people. That's effectively what you're doing, and it's stupid. The goal should be to help the poor, regardless of their skin color. AA doesn't do that.
Here's the thing. If you raise every black family to the quality of living that's experienced by whites (i.e., along the same distribution of income) then in a couple generations black people will be poor again. Why? Because they're specifically discriminated against out of racism. And then once the cycles of poverty kick in, it doesn't stop.
But there are poor white people now! I see them every day - poor white folks who have no money and no resources, and your programs don't help them because they have the wrong color skin. It's wrong, plain and simple.
Here's the difference between us: I want to help the poor, those who don't have much. You just want to help poor blacks. I don't think your system is particularly effective even at that, but even if it were, it'd still be unjust because it only focuses on some of the disadvantaged.
You want a more equal society where fewer people live in abject poverty? Then create programs that give opportunities to the
poor. Don't create a racist program that only addresses part of the problem, and actually makes the situation worse than if it didn't exist. Racism is never the answer, and supporting racism and the perpetuation of economic inequality in the name of equality is abhorrent. And that's exactly what you're doing.