He knows it is denigrating. That's why he used it. It's not worth the effort to maintain a pretense that you don't know what we are dealing with here El Mac. We can't use the word, but there's no point pretending we are dealing with anything but what we have here.
Naw. We live in a world of echo-chambers. If someone is willing to come out of theirs, I'm willing to meet them halfway in creating a dialogue. He'll either ratchet up the communication, in order to communicate, or he'll refuse to and then fail to communicate. But I live in a world where I let people change their behavior before I write them off.