Iirc the reason why you can't use quantum entanglement for FTL communication is cryptography. Imagine Alice and Bob are far away from each other, but both own one of a pair of entangled particles. Alice wants to send a message to Bob, so she changes the state of her particle in some way. This has to be done by letting her particle interact in some way with at least one other quantum.
Alice can't completely influence how those two quantums interacted. But this is a vital information for Bob to decode her message - remember: Bob's particle takes the same state as Alice's twin version of it, but without knowing what interaction caused this state, he can't find out what her "input" was. So Alice has to pass information about how the interaction happened to Bob, but obviously, she has to do this the classical way, because else they'd run into the same problem again.
So what's the matter with quantum entanglement communication? It gives you the perfect encryption method. The quantum which interacted with Alice's particle holds all information about how her information was encrypted - it's the encryption key. Without having this key, there's no way to decrypt the information again.
I apologize for errors and imprecision, quantum mechanics is something that's already hard to put into words when it's fresh in your head, so I hope a physicist can set any eventual errors straight later. But it should give you the principle idea why there's no FTL communication.