No it is not objectively true. 0.999... is an element of (0,1), while 1 is not. Two equal numbers cannot be in a set and it's compliment. This is the real numbers.
If you want this to be a discussion, and if you want people to take you seriously, you cannot just ignore arguments. I have proven that 0.99... cannot be a member of (0,1). If you just keep repeating that without addressing that argument, you are showing the others that you are to be ignored in a discussion.
If I repeat something as much as I want, 10 times, 1000 times, 1000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000 times... and it doesn't achieve what I want to achieve - and if moreover I know for a fact that no matter how much countable times I try it won't work - how does it make sense to propose that doing so infinitely achieves it?
Can you answer this question? Infintely saying "I shall be a god" will not make me a god, because saying "I shall be a god" is well established to not make me a god. Similarly, if I add 0.09 to 0.9, it wont be one, and if I add 0.009 to 0.99 it wont me one and I can continue this until I grow old and die and it still won't be one and I know that my ancestors can do the same thing forever and it never will be one but simply stating that it goes on for forever makes it one because... reasons. Because it is consistent within mathematical rules. But the question how this illogical feat is accomplished never is even worth mentioning. Because math says it is true. Because a tautology says so.
Tautologies are by definition meaningless beyond their own system of axioms and conclusions... So IMO only a fool would even consider answering such an inherent contradiction with math rules. You may just as well say because Jesus told me.
You are right that math is meaningless beyond its own system of axioms and conclusions. But by asking the question whether 0.99... = 1, you imply that you are already within that set of axioms. You are questioning the validity of an infinitely ongoing process and you certainly have a point there, because nothing in reality is actually infinite. However, to define 0.99... you need an infinitely ongoing process. If you say that I can never sum all terms, you also have to say that I can never write down all the digits. If you doubt the existence of the sum, it would only be consequent to doubt the existence of the object itself. By using 0.99... you have signalized that you have accepted an infinite process and I consider it hypocritical to not accept an answer that also involves an infinite process.
In other words: If you ask a math question, you get a math answer. If it is not supposed to be a math question, we can discuss about that. But to have a meaningful discussion you first would have to define the meaning of the terms '0.99...', '=', and '1'. If I cannot presuppose the math definition of those, I have no idea what you mean. So if you want to continue this discussion, please define those terms.