Enjoying this discussion tremendously, now

Touches on a lot of interesting topics.
And exactly here is the problem. Real analysis proves that within its framework, it is possible to know the sum of infinitely many objects. A huge part of mathematics depend on this. Take that away, and you end up with crippled math that is crippled to the point where it is a mere shadow of standard math.
Luckily, for all intends and purposes we so far, and in the foreseeable future, and probably forever, have to consider, infinitely close is just as good as being identical. So I see no reason why we would have to take it away from what you call "real analysis" (and which I would call "useful analysis" if we have to call it in such judging manner) and which, also, with much ease explains why the assumption that 0.999... = 1 works just as well weather it is true or not.
So the problem you see seems to be without any of the consequences you imply and hence not like a problem.
So, even if you had a valid philosophical objection, I would consider it to be stupid to cripple math like that.
It is an unexpected and wholesome pleasure to see ourselves unconditionally agree on something in this thread.
Yes. Measurement backaction is proven as good as science can prove such things.
So I am unclear what you think the implications of "as good as science can prove such things" are, considering that my objection towards the idea of a finite nature of physics regarding its downward scale are entirely based on the limits of what science can prove in that area.
There are physical limits on how precise things can be measured, no matter how good your instrument is. Whether these bounds are bounds on how precise a quantity can exist or bounds on how precise we can know a quantity is up for discussion, but I do not think that matters here.
And now you seem to agree with my original statement.

But in the beginning, you told me "Yes", as in yes, I can prove to you that this is not just an impression due to measurement limitations.
edit: But I agree this is irrelevant to the actual question. Which from my POV is weather 1=0.999... violates the rules actual quantities operate on (rather than the rules of the tautology called academic mathematics)
We could imagine that, yes. But then it would just exist in our imagination and would have no connection to the real world. In my opinion, quantities are abstractions of the real world and thus it does not make any sense to look at how they are supposed to work in the real world.
Well strictly speaking you are certainly right that quantities are abstractions, but then, there is no word which is not an abstraction, strictly speaking. The sounds our mouths make can not encapsulate what is there, but merely a concept of what is there, an abstraction.
However, to perceive the same in more or less than one instance or to perceive shares of something appears to me to be a fundamental component of perceiving anything at all, so that I can't agree that "abstraction" covers the nature of quantities satisfactorily. Rather, I'd say that quantities are innate to the natural world, through whatever lens you choose to look at it.
After all, my
dog can recognize several pieces all belonging to something it is conditioned to find interesting (and likely beyond that, but that is hard to prove). May that be pieces of an apple it can smell or merely pieces of a toy or a number of toys it just sees. It can use a category of things and apply it on different objects. That is quantity, happening on a purely sensual level. It is true that my dog's understanding of quantities is light years away of the - in comparison - sophisticated understanding people use in everyday-life - let alone the defined understanding academic math uses. However, that IMO certainly casts quit a doubt on your assertion that quantities are "just" an abstraction. They are an abstraction, as any word, but one rooted as deeply in sensual experience as any word, I dare to say.
I do not think there is a grounded real meaning to numbers. What exactly is that supposed to be? I suppose that there is an intuitive meaning of numbers, but that does not mean that meaning is real o makes it any less of an abstract concept.
As said, you can call any kind of human idea which can be communicated of literally anything an abstraction. So I don't think that the assertion that something is an abstraction is really meaningful in itself for what is discussed, since the word "reality" itself is an abstraction, strictly speaking. Hence, it needs to be qualified. There needs to be a kind of abstraction that is grounded in reality and one that is not.
For instance, I'd argue that the rules of a sport are not grounded in reality. They are probably best understood as a matter of pure will. They are not „dictated“ by an a priory existing fact of life.
Do I have a say over the pieces of an apple I see?
Are quantities more abstract than physics?
If you keep talking like this, I would like to see a definition of what you mean with "actual" and "reality of quantities". I have no idea what concept you have in mind with this.
The reality of the instances of sth and what this actually means. Math is supposed to articulate that, as you yourself said. I am saying that while academic math does a fine job in
usefully articulating it, it not always entirely correctly articulates it. Whereas in the case we discuss this incorrectness is virtually non-existent. But only virtually.