Manfred Belheim
Moaner Lisa
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I'm curious as to how many people in this thread are now in the "you obviously hate women" pigeonhole.
It's funny that you accuse others of inventing a movement, when you are the one pretending the fringe movements make up the big bulk of feminism. Have a look at the big feminist websites, and compare how many articles there are about child marriage, and how many there are about "Microaggressions", and similar meaningless crap that you can only care about if you're in a privileged position. Just read the articles on the main page of some of the major feminist magazines.
Just an example of everydayfeminism:
"3 Ways Microaggressions In The Workplace Got Worse After Trump"
"I Didn’t Know My Boyfriend Was Abusive Since He Never Hit Me"
"These Facts Prove Everything You Know About Weight Loss Is a Lie"
"How Men Can Better Recognize and Interrupt Everyday Sexual Harassment"
"Is Your Halloween Costume Racist?"
"4 Ways Therapists Failed Me As a Woman"
Doesn't that just spell self-centered, middle-class woman who just wants to be told how much of a victim she is? Nobody denies (at least I hope nobody does) that there are people who identify as feminists and do things that are actually important, but to pretend that the self-absorbed, all-about-me feminism that doesn't care a bit about people with actual problems "doesn't actually exist" is ridiculous. Of course it exists, and it dominates all major feminist platforms on the internet.
Because pigeonholes are comfy.I'm curious as to how many people in this thread are now in the "you obviously hate women" pigeonhole.
I'm pretty sure you're just making stuff up.
Cold pizza is disgusting and must not be eaten by anyone. I would only seriously consider eating it if I had no other food in the house and no way to warm it.
I should also add that some people feel you can't mess up pizza. I beg to differ. I have eaten pizza at work that was absolutely disgusting. I can't imagine how much worse it would have been if it had been cold. Not all pizza is good.
Yeah, where else do you think most people get in contact with feminism? The big internet presences are by far the largest communities of mainstream feminism. What do you think it should be judged by?Oh, well, if it's on the Internet then
I have seen many over the years on hereBut of course, no one ever gets gracious, well-mannered responses on the internet.
I have seen many over the years on here
And also on other forums, for that matter.
I agree also with GS that the internet is a cancerous cesspool, and that the inherent depravity of mankind, amplified by the anonymity provided by the internet, regularly drives conversations in unfruitful directions. What one would have liked is a first responder who said "you've phrased your question in such a way as to suggest that mums routinely make lunches for their hubbies, and you should probably be aware, as I'm sure that you in fact are, that that is not the case in all domestic arrangements, and that there are some who find the assumption that that is, or should be, or must be the case, offensive."
Because pigeonholes are comfy.
The questions in the OP seem terribly out of proportion with the scenario presented in the post.
On Facebook, it always helps to provide context. The way the question was asked is ambiguous - yes the women jumped to conclusions, but the way the question was asked invited it.
I mean, if he does have time to do stuff around the house he can make his own lunch, yes? I don't see that as a bad suggestion. Rejigger the division of labor so husband is responsible for his own lunch. Then wife is relieved from the burden of having to make sure the lunch is acceptable. Speaking as the one responsible for cooking dinner for my family most nights, this is not an insignificant thing.
Only at the point?At this point, I am pretty sure you have no idea what you are talking about.
Feminists seem to focus pretty heavily on the gender binary.Of course. It directly relates to the gender binary which many feminists seek to dismantle.
I mean, if he does have time to do stuff around the house he can make his own lunch, yes? I don't see that as a bad suggestion. Rejigger the division of labor so husband is responsible for his own lunch. Then wife is relieved from the burden of having to make sure the lunch is acceptable. Speaking as the one responsible for cooking dinner for my family most nights, this is not an insignificant thing.