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Whomp said:
Now that's funny. I guess I should've made a little more space. :lol:
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It was funny because I'd never seen that before, which, if you think about it, is quite amazing.
 
Golden Touch said:
you live in the North pole?! or you've been watching too much porn and have unrealistic expectations.... girls dont often walk up to you in the street and suggest you take a walk very often in real life. Unless your jude law...
No, men aren't socially incompetent. I just think their social life is different to a womans. less crucial for their piece of mind. I would go mad without a gossip with my girls at least once a week, a guy can go 2 months without seeing a buddy.
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I was of course joking, guys have odd thoughts, if the world worked like we wanted we'd want every woman to just jump into bed with us:). I was hoping you'd answer the serious question, do you think guys are socially incompetent. And thanks for the answer.
 
Nanocyborgasm said:
Do you know the British slang word for a cigarette?



The only girls who look better with better clothes are the ones who were hot in the first place. The clothes are placed in such a way as to get a man to take notice of certain features. Women don't actually look any better when wearing certain clothes. It's just that certain features, which were already attractive, may be more noticeable in some clothes (or make-up) than others. When ugly girls try the same thing, it doesn't work out. For example, a woman may wear a low-cut top to show off her breasts, or a backless dress to show how tall, lean, and graceful she is. It's only an illusion that they look "better".

Lingerie is even more obvious about it. As far as I'm concerned, lingerie is nice, but if you're going to wear it in my presence, be prepared to remove it quickly, or else I'll have to.
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Naked can be just not wearing clothes and not intrinsically sexy, even if the girl is hot. But if the girl is hot and wearing sexy clothes its intrinsically sexy. Certain outfits convey sex more than nakedness, sometimes. My point is not that clothes are better than no clothes, its that an earlier point you sided with stated that only girls care about clothes and makeup, which I'm saying isn't true.

In fact, it was in male dominated time periods (the very women unfriendly 50s for example) that women were really required to put on certain feminine clothes and makeup and done hair, and that if men really didn't care, they wouldn't have imposed those preferences.
 
Golden Touch said:
Amazing question. But also unanswerable. For me the spark is a feeling you get, a buzz of excitement on the first meeting that never goes away. You always get nervous about seeing that person because they make you feel on edge in the most incredible way. Its initally about sexual atraction but that spark can flash up at any point on a comment he makes, or when he touches you or when he laughs in a particularly sexy way or when he does something for you that he knows you'll love. Its the most amazing thing in the world.
Can I describe why it happens? Hell no. Noone has that answer. Not even a girl.
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Quoted for truth; men or women. Good night ! :)
 
Why do girls communicate only with body language?
 
When we ask you what you want for christmas/birthdays and you say nothing, do you really want nothing, or are we suppose to figure out what to get you, and if we are why do you do this?
 
Raisin Bran said:
Why do girls communicate only with body language?
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:confused: I'm not sure what you mean. Body language is a MAJOR part of communication. That's why it's frustrating to try to figure out online conversations sometimes -- for example, was a person sarcastic in a joking way, did he/she intend it in a mean way, or did you completely misunderstand his/her post and no sarcasm was intended at all?

If you could physically see the person, there would probably not be that kind of confusion (or it would be greatly lessened).

But the fact that I am female and am typing these words (if we were physically face to face, I'd be speaking out loud) should indicate that girls do not only communicate using body language. We also use words. ;)
 
Raisin Bran said:
Why do girls communicate only with body language?
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erm, we dont. we also talk! boys and girls communicated with both body language and talking. maybe rephrase the question :)

Nuclear kid said:
When we ask you what you want for christmas/birthdays and you say nothing, do you really want nothing, or are we suppose to figure out what to get you, and if we are why do you do this?
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No we want something. and yes your meant to figure it out, or at least be smart enough to ask one of our friends/family or have picked up on our tiny wee hints. why? because we'd know what to get you, and by choosing a gift we like it shows that you do know who we are and what we want/like and that you have gone to the effort to think about this rather than being spoon fed the answer. and everyone likes surprises :)

whomp I managed to view your most but when i went back to multi quote everything for some reason I couldnt view it any more...surreal. if you want to post again I'll have a gander.
 
your only allowed 10 smileys per post, forum hard rule, so i guess it didnt allwo the multiquote because of that.
 
Valka D'Ur said:
:confused: I'm not sure what you mean. Body language is a MAJOR part of communication. That's why it's frustrating to try to figure out online conversations sometimes -- for example, was a person sarcastic in a joking way, did he/she intend it in a mean way, or did you completely misunderstand his/her post and no sarcasm was intended at all?

If you could physically see the person, there would probably not be that kind of confusion (or it would be greatly lessened).

But the fact that I am female and am typing these words (if we were physically face to face, I'd be speaking out loud) should indicate that girls do not only communicate using body language. We also use words. ;)
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Well, actually, I find that typing is reasonably good. As long as I can hear a voice then that's all the commnication I need. There isn't anything else. Body language is only useful when the person isn't talking properly (like me trying to speak Italian).
As long as you can hear the person then the tone of voice conveys sarcasm, irony, interest, boredom, happiness, excitement and so on. I only look at people when they speak because people tend to think that I'm bored or uninterested if I don't.
 
Say "hello"
 
You could always try and mug her.

Your either up £20 or attention gained..

WIN/WIN!
 
Hygro said:
Naked can be just not wearing clothes and not intrinsically sexy, even if the girl is hot. But if the girl is hot and wearing sexy clothes its intrinsically sexy. Certain outfits convey sex more than nakedness, sometimes. My point is not that clothes are better than no clothes, its that an earlier point you sided with stated that only girls care about clothes and makeup, which I'm saying isn't true.
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Never mind, you didn't get the joke.

In fact, it was in male dominated time periods (the very women unfriendly 50s for example) that women were really required to put on certain feminine clothes and makeup and done hair, and that if men really didn't care, they wouldn't have imposed those preferences.
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That's different. Women were required to cover up their bodies because they were considered male property.
 
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