Ask a Girl

[Hygro]

The point of small talk is to show off your superior confidenc, situation appropriate articulation, and other signs of desirability.

 

[azzaman333]

The point of small talk is to show off your superior confidenc, situation appropriate articulation, and other signs of desirability.

In that case, I have not confidence, cant talk appropriately for the situation, and have no desirability whatsoever...

 

[Civrules]

In that case, I have not confidence, cant talk appropriately for the situation, and have no desirability whatsoever...

You can change that in such a way that in one year you'd loathe your old self.
The thing is to stop believing that things are the way they are because of the reason that they can't be changed.
Before you start using stupid "tactics" and that kind of stuff, work on yourself and self-improvement.

Lifting weights, writing goals, ANYTHING to better yourself.
Confidence will follow.

Nobody got anywhere without proactiveness.

 

[Hygro]

Smalltalk can even be a way to display genuiness.

But yeah, as civrules basically covered, confidence follows success. And success comes from a million different things. Even a good haircut.

 

[Eran of Arcadia]

Out of curiousity, when did this stop being "Ask a girl" and start becoming "Another dating Advice Thread"?

 

[punkbass2000]

It has the word "Girl" in thread title so it was destined by the gods.

 

[ArneHD]

Out of curiousity, when did this stop being "Ask a girl" and start becoming "Another dating Advice Thread"?

Xanikk princible at work, I'm afraid.

 

[Rhymes]

Does it irritate you that usually men are so clueless about women?

Pesonally, I,m iritated that women are usually so clueless about men.

 

[Civrules]

Out of curiousity, when did this stop being "Ask a girl" and start becoming "Another dating Advice Thread"?

Out of curiosity, since when is it unusual for Off-Topic threads to become Off-Topic?

 

[Eran of Arcadia]

Yeah, but when a religion thread goes badly off course it is no big deal. This thread was the only one filling an important need.

 

[Civrules]

It still is...

Until the ultimate promised dating advice thread is created, we're running the risk of more such threads going ot.

 

[Masquerouge]

It still is...

Until the ultimate promised dating advice thread is created, we're running the risk of more such threads going ot.

We're working on that

 

[Elrohir]

Xanikk princible at work, I'm afraid.

Has that principle been written out in full anywhere?

 

[BCLG100]

einstein was working on it iirc but then got distracted by girl troubles

 

[Masquerouge]

Has that principle been written out in full anywhere?

Yes, on the CFC OT wiki site (whose address is escaping me atm)

 

[Synobun]

Yes, on the CFC OT wiki site (whose address is escaping me atm)

http://cfcot.wiki-site.com/index.php/Main_Page

 

[Masquerouge]

http://cfcot.wiki-site.com/index.php/Main_Page

Thanks!

http://cfcot.wiki-site.com/index.php/The_Xanikk_Principle

 

[Old Spice]

Do woman like men who have a theory named after them, then say if he didn't?

 

[Xanikk999]

Do woman like men who have a theory named after them, then say if he didn't?

Hmm that might be a good chat-up line.

Hey you know what? On an online gaming forum i have a theory named after me, its called the Xanikk principle!

On second though. Probably not.

 

[Masquerouge]

Do woman like men who have a theory named after them, then say if he didn't?

I don't get the second part of that sentence, but for the first part, usually no. I don't think any guy who named a theorem got laid a lot.