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cos they know everything we say isnt just to jump into their knickers?
 
So, why don't women like porn? This is something I truly cannot fathom?:confused:

erm, some porn we like. probably just that lots of girls have been forced to watch very male porn by their bfs. theres lots of more girly attractive porn out there folks....

Unfortunatly taking a girl to bed almost always requires some kind of lying...

nice mambo... nice

I don't get it. Why do women like to be friends with homosexuals so much? And why do they like metrosexuals?
Because you feel safe talking deep and meaningful with a guy you can never date (for gay guys). we like metros coz they're pretty and smell nice and you can get a male opinion but know it will go no further.

cos they know everything we say isnt just to jump into their knickers?

you implying your a metro?! surely not. plus, everything you've ever said has been trying to get into my panties ;)
 
erm, some porn we like. probably just that lots of girls have been forced to watch very male porn by their bfs. theres lots of more girly attractive porn out there folks....

Well, I wasn't talking about hardcore stuff eugh:puke:

I mean like strip clubs, why aren't there "ladys clubs" as opposed to just "genltemens clubs? There's playboy, but no corresponding soft porn mag. for girls...
 
Well, I wasn't talking about hardcore stuff eugh:puke:

I mean like strip clubs, why aren't there "ladys clubs" as opposed to just "genltemens clubs? There's playboy, but no corresponding soft porn mag. for girls...

Yes there is, Playgirl. And there are strip clubs for women out there.
 
either she was very stupid... or you did the classic boy trick of saying stuff you dont mean. keep your mouth shut if this is the case!!!!!

I avoid lying; I sometimes mislead, but not about relationships. She didn't give me the chance: she just assumed that kissing meant a committed relationship and a whole night meant something even worse.
I'm actually very honest and open, because women always ignore what I say anyway. I could tell a girl that I'm an evil stalker who's been sectioned twice and I think she'd ignore it.
 
I avoid lying; I sometimes mislead, but not about relationships. She didn't give me the chance: she just assumed that kissing meant a committed relationship and a whole night meant something even worse.
I'm actually very honest and open, because women always ignore what I say anyway. I could tell a girl that I'm an evil stalker who's been sectioned twice and I think she'd ignore it.

yeah, women are very good at thinking you said something, well, maybe you din't say it that way but it clearly meant that, and plus there are so many hints....

So in the end according to her story you promissed her a wedding and children when in fact all you said is somehting like " we had a pretty good time tonight"
 
I mean like strip clubs, why aren't there "ladys clubs" as opposed to just "genltemens clubs? There's playboy, but no corresponding soft porn mag. for girls...

i tihnk girls use their imaginations more, guys seem to need visual aids. girl literature porn is huge amongst my group of friends. you can use the erotic story, but put your own images onto it. girls dont get off the same on watching other people have sex, it has to be you in the fantasy (well for me anywho)

Yes there is, Playgirl. And there are strip clubs for women out there.

its becoming much more normal now to have male strip clubs, hiring strippers for mates birthdays, and there are a few female pron directors out there trying to bring porn into your average girls life...

yeah, women are very good at thinking you said something, well, maybe you din't say it that way but it clearly meant that, and plus there are so many hints....

So in the end according to her story you promissed her a wedding and children when in fact all you said is somehting like " we had a pretty good time tonight"
yeah thats true. we can be pretty stubborn if we decide we like someone. we can twist your words into what we want to hear. though in our defence, this is mainly because lots of men are crap at communicating feels, thoughts etc. so we often have to fill in the gaps. only problem is if you've decided you want someone you can fill them in wrong. asking a friend to fill in the gaps, thats the best option!
 
yeah thats true. we can be pretty stubborn if we decide we like someone. we can twist your words into what we want to hear. though in our defence, this is mainly because lots of men are crap at communicating feels, thoughts etc. so we often have to fill in the gaps. only problem is if you've decided you want someone you can fill them in wrong. asking a friend to fill in the gaps, thats the best option!

Ok I partially hand it to you,

But sometimes there is just no gap to fill. Guys (in general) are not as emotional as girls, so sometimes girls think "oh I wonder what he is feeling/thinking right now " because thats the way women think and act. But the guy might really not be thinking or feeling much, just enjoying the moment and not asking himself any questions.
 
Women. Why wont you love me :(

I have a more controversal question too, why is it ok for a woman to hit a guy and yet whne this haooens he cant hit her back... I know the idea of hitting a woman is wrong but the way I see it if a woman wants to fight like a man then she should get hit like one (And I mean if she justs straight out hits you or something, not a slap but a POW! Ah me nose! Ya broke it you bugger!")
Because women don't want equality, they want superiority. :p They want to be treated like ladies, without having to act like them; to get all the benefits of the old chivalrous system without any of the disadvantages.

Sometimes when a girl smacks or kicks me or something, I'll do the same back to her. I find it endlessly amusing when everyone is shocked - just the other day a girl pushed me, and I grabbed her shoulders and I said "knock it off". She loudly exclaimed "You can't do that! You broke the rules!" To which I responded, "I don't follow your rules". :lol:

Yes, I know. I'm a very bad person, and I'm going to hell. :p Not.
 
Because women don't want equality, they want superiority. :p They want to be treated like ladies, without having to act like them; to get all the benefits of the old chivalrous system without any of the disadvantages.

Sometimes when a girl smacks or kicks me or something, I'll do the same back to her. I find it endlessly amusing when everyone is shocked - just the other day a girl pushed me, and I grabbed her shoulders and I said "knock it off". She loudly exclaimed "You can't do that! You broke the rules!" To which I responded, "I don't follow your rules". :lol:

Yes, I know. I'm a very bad person, and I'm going to hell. :p Not.

Well, we can all agree you're not a gentleman ;)
 
erm, some porn we like. probably just that lots of girls have been forced to watch very male porn
I always thought that it was because it threatens the woman's ideal of her attractiveness from her BF/husband.
 
erm, some porn we like. probably just that lots of girls have been forced to watch very male porn by their bfs. theres lots of more girly attractive porn out there folks...

:eek:

Lots of guys make their girlfriends watch porn? This is common? That is something I would never and can't imagine doing to a girl. It seems to be against some unwritten law of chivalry.


Besides, if I had a girlfriend, she should be providing all the pornographic material I need.:groucho:
 
Ok I partially hand it to you,

But sometimes there is just no gap to fill. Guys (in general) are not as emotional as girls, so sometimes girls think "oh I wonder what he is feeling/thinking right now " because thats the way women think and act. But the guy might really not be thinking or feeling much, just enjoying the moment and not asking himself any questions.

agreed. but we're girls. we try not to ask questions (well i dont, but some do) but at the end of the day thats the way we work! some middle ground needs to be found... eventually we all find it.

I always thought that it was because it threatens the woman's ideal of her attractiveness from her BF/husband.

not so much. I think we can all appreciate that you lust for other peoples bodies. It always suprises me when a guy uses porn of girls that are the complete opposite of you, but still claim to find you uber attractive. but at the end of that day i think its the 'what you dont have you lust for' theory. lusting over other girls is fine, porn is fine, romantic feelings for another woman... not so good.

Well, we can all agree you're not a gentleman ;)
play nicely boys :p

Because women don't want equality, they want superiority. :p They want to be treated like ladies, without having to act like them; to get all the benefits of the old chivalrous system without any of the disadvantages.

Sometimes when a girl smacks or kicks me or something, I'll do the same back to her. I find it endlessly amusing when everyone is shocked - just the other day a girl pushed me, and I grabbed her shoulders and I said "knock it off". She loudly exclaimed "You can't do that! You broke the rules!" To which I responded, "I don't follow your rules". :lol:

yup, we want it all. but hands down to you for fighting back. we will walk alll over you if you let us! totally agree that its acceptable to fight back, but maybe with some consideration for size. ie. a girl will be hurt much more easily than another man
 
Ok I partially hand it to you,

But sometimes there is just no gap to fill. Guys (in general) are not as emotional as girls, so sometimes girls think "oh I wonder what he is feeling/thinking right now " because thats the way women think and act. But the guy might really not be thinking or feeling much, just enjoying the moment and not asking himself any questions.
Girls I've known seem to think that it's good to ask about feelings. A bit like girls themselves, the feelings disappear if they're chased. Why can't girls just let things be? Take it easy for once. I don't want to think about my feelings: if I want anything to do with them at all, I want to feel my feelings.
yup, we want it all. but hands down to you for fighting back. we will walk alll over you if you let us! totally agree that its acceptable to fight back, but maybe with some consideration for size. ie. a girl will be hurt much more easily than another man
But fighting back is no fun. I can walk all over a woman, nice and easy. But that's not a particularly fun relationship (using relationship in the broader sense of 'knowing the person'). I've struggled to find a woman who's able just to let things rest and not push me into being angry, or putting her down, or fighting back (verbally or physically), because if we fight, only one person gets hurt, and it's not me.
Do women get off from instilling emotion in guys? Do you ever find yourself looking for a rise of any sort, even if it's anger, rather than love or liking? It seems like either I must not only not care about her, but be generally fairly heartless and happily make her upset all the time, or else I have to let a woman rule my life in an equally unpleasant manner.
 
As far as i am aware, its only those really small that could worry.. "normal" or slightly smaller men tend to show more foreplay and thus equally good ex regardless.. "bigger" men tend to be pornstars.

Its certainly not going to make or break a relationship.. once youve got that far.. unelss your absolutly lousy in bed.. your kinda won already
 
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