Ask a Girl

[Kal'thzar]

Btw, I think the premise of this thread is misleading. I have rarely met a woman who has enough insight into herself to give honest answers. And in this thread, only GT seems to be honest, or give responses with any value. You are better off asking other men, more skilled in this than you.

I'm sure their tinged with self intrest, rest assured your generalisation fits the bill.

 

[Golden Touch]

Btw, I think the premise of this thread is misleading. I have rarely met a woman who has enough insight into herself to give honest answers. And in this thread, only GT seems to be honest, or give responses with any value. You are better off asking other men, more skilled in this than you.

Thank you my man! I'm pleased to see you think I have some value in this. As for the thread, i started ask a girl off again in january, but then jumped ship for a while. since then it seems to have been taken over by men who claim to understand women. impossible. you understand YOUR woman. not that I'm saying my answers are anything near perfect, but i'm not just drawing on my own opinions I also use those of my friends. I am a girl afterall and we talk A LOT!

 

[Rhymes]

Thank you my man! I'm pleased to see you think I have some value in this. As for the thread, i started ask a girl off again in january, but then jumped ship for a while. since then it seems to have been taken over by men who claim to understand women. impossible. you understand YOUR woman. not that I'm saying my answers are anything near perfect, but i'm not just drawing on my own opinions I also use those of my friends. I am a girl afterall and we talk A LOT!

Nah I disagree, I have met many women and i've had many relationship, and there are some fundamental patterns that don't change much from one girl to an other. Same thing with men.

I can't say that I understand every woman in her personal apsects, but I surely understand the gender in general.

 

[mrt144]

for the record, i would suggest avoiding "seduction manuals" on the premise that it tries to be a shortcut to real growth and learning.

 

[Rhymes]

for the record, i would suggest avoiding "seduction manuals" on the premise that it tries to be a shortcut to real growth and learning.

thats why good seduction manuals are really "growth and learning" manuals.

Some of them get on that issue as the main topic.

 

[Civrules]

for the record, i would suggest avoiding "seduction manuals" on the premise that it tries to be a shortcut to real growth and learning.

People have to copy what works. If you want to learn by yourself, good luck wasting 4-6 years of your life learning the hard way. Through frustration and pain. Thats why, at all costs, get out there and get some books and then get out and solidify what you've learned.

 

[raen]

Newsflash, I have been taking karate for nearly three years now.

Also depends on what you eat, you may thing you eat healthy food, but the timing and mixing some types of food can be bad. For instance rice with meat.

 

[Prince_Imrahil]

but the timing and mixing some types of food can be bad. For instance rice with meat.

OT but eh? How so?

 

[Firstlady]

Also depends on what you eat, you may thing you eat healthy food, but the timing and mixing some types of food can be bad. For instance rice with meat.

Yeah...I usually eat rice and meat....3 or more times a week...

 

[Prince_Imrahil]

Same... is this why I'm slim and not bulked up?

 

[Nylan]

Why do girls never answer questions directly? I don't mean when they're being flirty, but in serious discussion (or argument in some cases) or concerning time sensitive material, they just don't answer.

Ever.

Even when they're not trying to play around or be funny.

 

[Prince_Imrahil]

Ya, you should always say what you think ladies

 

[raen]

Well I only can say to you that I eated hoven rice and meat and salad almost all meals, and bread in breakfast. I have eliminated rice and bread. I eat meat or fish with salad or boiled vegetables and alot of soup, and for breakfast bread for diet (dont know name in english).

rice for itself is bad in too much quantity. with meat is explosive.

If you see some old civ pictures, I was fatter. I am thinner now.

My love made me realise this, thats is why I posted in this thread.

Edited: and almost all meat I eated and eat is grilled.

 

[Sidhe]

Why do girls never answer questions directly? I don't mean when they're being flirty, but in serious discussion (or argument in some cases) or concerning time sensitive material, they just don't answer.

Ever.

Even when they're not trying to play around or be funny.

Huh? That's a bit of a generalisation, have you got any examples?

I think when I'm talking to a girl the few times they do that are for a number of reasons.

a) they don't want to be honest about x, for y reasons.
b) they're losing the argument, men do this too.
c) they can't explain it in terms a man would understand, because it's the way they feel, and **** it's odd.
d) there just playing
e) they are winding you up
f) they think your an idiot for being so dense and don't want to waste their time
g) they think they're an idiot for being so dense and don't want to admit it
h) they have better things to do and are just trying to avoid getting into a serious discussion
i) your being a tit and they know it

All of the above though are not exclusive to women.

Women aren't stupid or dense and they aren't lying or playing games for x reasons. There manipulative though and that may be where your missing the sub text, in communication women rule. You can learn the trade but you start of at a disadvantage. Does depend though, a lot on circumstance though, in some discussions we are at an advantage. But if you combine our skills then you have a real progression.

 

[Nylan]

I understand for the most part why, and in fact it was more of a rant than anything, but yes you have very good points there.

 

[b etor]

Btw, I think the premise of this thread is misleading. I have rarely met a woman who has enough insight into herself to give honest answers. And in this thread, only GT seems to be honest, or give responses with any value. You are better off asking other men, more skilled in this than you.

GT does give good answers
my answers are honest too!

Ever heard about Body dysmorphic disorder? It's not an excuse, it's a symptom for BDD. I dont want anyone telling me that I am ugly and fat (It will make BDD even worse).
What about nice guys? They dont make the cut? .

yea. you know how i've heard of it? other than the fact that you've mentioned it MULTIPLE times, i know other people with it. and NONE of them talk about it as much as you. they don't like to admit that they have it. i'm not saying you don't have BDD, but the way you talk about it makes me think you don't but you just think you do. i don't mean to sound like a *****, really.

Why do girls never answer questions directly? I don't mean when they're being flirty, but in serious discussion (or argument in some cases) or concerning time sensitive material, they just don't answer.

Ever.

Even when they're not trying to play around or be funny.

some girls do. most of my friends do, actually. Sidhe covered most of it anway. lol.

 

[GenMarshall]

I think I should just shut up and give up with women. Already girls in this forum are only finding me an annoyance .

 

[Ansar]

I think I should just shut up and give up with women. Already girls in this forum are only finding me an annoyance .

So now you're turning homosexual? (just kidding!!!)

Just try doing more exercise (especially push ups and sit ups) to get more muscle. Im sure girls love that (girls do love that on a guy, right?) Getting to where you want to be is never easy. Just don't give up.

 

[GenMarshall]

So now you're turning homosexual? (just kidding!!!)

I dont think so!

Just don't give up.

If I am being an annoyance, I dont see any reason why to pursue if all I am going to get is <negative> responses .

 

[Synobun]

Listen, CG, not every guy is destined to be one of those guys on the cover of a magazine. You will find the right person someday, just don't feel down so much, since girls can tell such things (They're evil).