You are saying men are better at being monarchs but women are better than men as well?
Both have their strengths. However, I also stand by my view that men usually have more political aptitude than women. Historically, many cultures had various safeguards and customs in place that limited or eliminated likelihood of a state getting a female ruler, and I don't view such as necessarily prejudicial or irrational.
So, LGBT people should have families?
It would be more accurate to say that heterosexuality is the only way to have a family. If you are homosexual and do not wish to have a family, and your family is okay with it, I see no reason to make a point of it. However, to be solely homosexual and then demand the right to have exactly the same capabilities to have a family as those that are heterosexual is like asking to eat to be able completely eat the pie and then keep it too.
What about monks, nuns and non-marrying priests? Are they bad for society?
They have made a sacrifice by choosing to forsake family life for a greater spiritual good. That's very commendable.
Reactionism seems to be a highly specialized attitude, then. A reactionary today might be seen as a centrist or even progressive, depending on how far back in time one goes. How does this affect your self-perception, or shape the nature of your goals? If you were to be magically transported back to any given point in the past, do you think you would be equally reactionary, or more satisfied than at the present, or something else entirely?
Well, societies idealised by reactionaries are often reactionary by ideology. For instance, Pre-Revolutionary France formally allowed political change if it could be proven it was a lost custom. There was absolutely no notion of novelty in politics, even if it in fact was. If you would transport to the age of hunter-gatherers, I might be labelled extreme-left for wanting to transform hunter-gatherers into settled cities with monarchies. A reactionary usually has some notion of a certain golden period that is more sophisticated than all the other periods that went after or before. This may take highly particularistic forms, limiting views of history to certain civilisations, ethnic groups even.
Also, the idea of reactionism suggests a steady march toward something else by society, to which you object. How does this color your attitude toward historical analyses which posit such a march; either dialectical modes like Marxists (which isn't necessarily a "forward" march, just a steady movement) or teleological ones like Whigs and Hegelians (which really do posit specifically "forward" marches of improvement in human society)?
The common thread of all reactionaries is the disdain of democracy, which is central to their view of history. Democracy makes it increasingly hard for individuals to leave their mark on history, so our way of life becomes systematised. In my personal view, Hegelianism is more or less a self-fulfilling prophecy in that its view of progress about humanity, history becomes highly systematised by the changes brought about its very ideas. It ultimately corrupts into a machine that will go into a predictable trajectory - until it breaks down.
So reactionaries are intrigued by monarchy and decentralisation, precisely because it allows us to take full advantage of our humanity and to some extent, even transcend it. It brings the centre point of everything back to personalities instead of machines, which also underpins the reactionary disdain of democracy, socialism and capitalism.
I ask this because it seems, between your views on history, society, and the relation of human consciousness to one's society, suggest a similar approach to Marxism; but where we embrace these conclusions for a progressive cause, you explicitly reject them - rather like the young Metternich perceiving the students' revolutionary fervor in 1789 Paris and being repulsed instead of inspired by them. Would you say this is so?
Not necessarily. Do note however that some Reactionaries embrace Antonio Gramsci and that Pre-Marxist Socialism was influenced - positively - by the writings of Joseph de Maistre.