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The first 9 questions are about race. 9/9 in everyday (non-internet) life. If you count my trips to China it drops to 6/9. Online discussions drops to 4/9.
'Only person of your race in the room', I'm excluding times where is only two people in the room, that would seem petty (every day with my wife for example). When I went to a black bar (on multiple occasions), the bartenders were white females. In China I was the only white in TOWN on several occasions. The time I worked at a factory that was over 80% Hmong, isn't quite 100%.
'Mocked for accent'-In China, not exactly for accent, but for speaking english "Hello". (group of men around 20 or so years old that say that and giggle amongst themselves). Online for 'the boring/bland midwestern accent'
Racial slur-Online of course. Hasn't happened offline, excluding friendly 'redneck' names from other whites. Don't doubt some strangers in China were saying it, but at least not to my face. Standing in an airport between two black men, a couple Chinese young men were pointing at us and laughing amongst themselves. Whether it was me, the blacks, or all of us and some sort of 'oreo' joke, I don't know.
Next 14 questions are about sexuality.
12/14 off-line
Been called gay (when I'm not). I'm a bit reserved about PDA.
An incident that doesn't quite fit into any of the answers is the time I went to a gay bar (with a friend who went to visit his gay uncle) and there was a straight couple in the bar gawking at the gays, assumed me and my friend were also gays then when we saw them later at another bar the female was dripping drinks on us from the balcony above. I wouldn't say that was 'violently threatened' or attacked.
Next 10 are Gender
10/10
Unless a prostitute propositioning me counts as a 'catcall'.
Denied opportunity? Not that I know of. There is usually no way to know why you don't get a job you apply for. They typically won't say "We hired a female because we don't want men here". Can't say I ever tried to join an obvious woman group or something (cheerleader, women's basketball team, etc.).
Next 15 questions are financial.
4/15
No student loans. Over 40 years old, and the couple thousand I had to borrow to get an associates degree was paid off two decades ago.
Never homeless, don't use public transport and no unpaid internship.
Next 16 questions from summer camp to frequent flier miles, is still financial, but also kind of goes into other areas.
6/16
Parents forced me every summer to bible camp (and church), nowadays the church pays for it. I give my kids the choice: "If you go to sunday school you can go to summer camp". They decide it isn't worth it.
HS grad, I'm guessing the two year associates counts as 'college', had a $200 beater for a car in high school, traveled internationally (when I was in my 30's), as a kid my parents taking me to a mexican border town for an hour I wouldn't really count. and I know Sallie Mae, despite never using them.
The last 36 questions bounce all over, sometimes going back to previous categories.
20/36
"Too skinny", shamed for being atheist.
Disagree about prescription drugs. Yes, many do abuse their own prescriptions or 'swap' their scripts with their friends for their scripts. But, stealing grandma's arthritis medication, raiding medicine cabinets of neighbors, obtaining cash from other illegal activities so you can buy meds from a dealer, prostitution, etc. I wouldn't say is 'privileged'. Sometimes the meds are even paid for by Medicaid. It's not all about having a "Candy Man" family doctor.
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